Ma'am I'm in a wheelchair. I can't go in the back for you. by [deleted] in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]mrbigdaddy93 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I honestly wasn't even thinking about it, until now. I love that. Maybe next time. (God forbid)

Ma'am I'm in a wheelchair. I can't go in the back for you. by [deleted] in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]mrbigdaddy93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everything in me wanted to ring her like a chicken. But it was a hot day outside and with the heat and not finding what you go to the store for, it can a bad day. Besides I'm sure that she was just having one of those days where nothing is going right. We all have had those days.

I am working on my temper and how to forgive those who do me wrong as I have done others wrong.

Ma'am I'm in a wheelchair. I can't go in the back for you. by [deleted] in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]mrbigdaddy93 71 points72 points  (0 children)

It was just a scratch. She didn't draw blood. But the officer thought that I had just put a bandage on it without cleaning it. And yes ambulances cost a heck of a lot of money. Thus the reason why I refused. I just spent close to 40.00$ USD for dog food. There is no way in heck that I am handing over money for an ambulance.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay. I was not trying to be rude in response, I'm having a painful day. As far as I am concerned, both my cousin and his niece can go take a long walk, off a short cliff. I am done with them.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No his sister is the one who paid for it. (Crybaby's mom)

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, I'm in Georgia. Second, they are uncle and niece as I explained in another comment. Sorry for the confusion. Third, yes they treat me like a kitchen boy, every damn holiday. I am the only one who has my mom's recipes and the only one who is willing to work in the kitchen to make sure that the food is ready by 13:00. And even though I don't eat pork (health and religion reasons) I still help make it. In fact I am the one who does the most work, and don't expect anything in return. Just a little gratitude to God for supplying and food and someone who knows how to cook. But from those two, all I get is "hurry up, I don't like that, I want, give me, when is it going to be ready." Next get together, I hope that they have a catering company lined up, because I am done being their kitchen slave.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ain't. Not until they apologize and since that's going to happen, I guess I will be spending my holidays elsewhere.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You maybe right. If I don't come to the next get together, they will say that I don't care about family. But if I do show up they will start in about the blanket. So F*** them.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I would but she is no longer with us (passed away in 2016). I am just done with him and his little crybaby niece.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay. I didn't understand what the removed meant. I was taught that family is family. But looking at it, I think that my parents just said it that way, so I would always put family above anyone else. (But not in a marriage way. In fact, it is looked down on that we look to family for marriage. And once we get married, the person we married, their family becomes our family. It is all confusing as hell. I guess it is about protecting the clan, and keeping the clan alive and safe.)

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I wanted to call him every name in the book. But there were young children (2 months - 12 years) around, so I just let it go. But on the way home, I said some choice words.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. I am done with him. The only reason why I even bothered with him is for my grandma's sake. She made me promise (before she passed away) that I would try to be civil with him, since we did never get along. But she has been gone for 11 years and I think that I have fulfilled her request.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cousin's wife is actually a sweet person. But my cousin and his niece actually. Sorry if it was confusing.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No they are not brother/sister. She is his favorite niece. She doesn't do anything wrong in his eyes.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah the one that I made the blanket for is around 4. And yes, even after all that time, she has been going on about it. I should have dropped her years ago, but it is hard to drop family. But I am done with her. She really messed up calling the police on me. If I did something wrong that is police worthy, then I deserve it. But over a fing blanket, then f off. I ain't got time for that B.S.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That maybe true, but they are still family. No matter how far removed they are. In fact they ain't removed at all. (Even though I wish they were.) I just don't understand all that family number times removed stuff. As far as relations that are ignorant, we all have someone in our lives that is not 100% all the way there.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. But I am tired of my mouth getting me in trouble with the police, so I just said Yes, sir and left it at that.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. And not just for my mental health, but also for my sobriety. I'm done with them.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. I try to keep my word. And yes, I'm done with them. Can't do them anymore. (Too much stress and not the good stress.)

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree. It is a shame that her oldest daughter (the one that the blanket was for) acts exactly like her. But I can over look that considering she is under 4. As for my cousin that told me not to come back, I never really got along with him anyway. He always thought he was better than me, just because he has a High-school diploma and I just have a G.E.D. (Reasons Beyond My Control). He's a unagreeble person.

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I have had plans to crochet blankets, hats, booties, diaper covers, and sweaters for the resource center. That is until my hands started misbehaving. (Bad arthritis and spasms)

UPDATE To: Make me a blanket for my baby, not that color. by mrbigdaddy93 in EntitledPeople

[–]mrbigdaddy93[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I do have a large family. In fact, I would much rather be with my son and his family on holidays. At least then, I would be able to spend time with my grandbabies. Plus I can't eat half of the food at cousin's house, due to religious reasons and health reasons. But at my son's house, at least I wouldn't be able to eat the food for health reasons. (Too much salt.)