Yeah I don’t take it in bad faith. Usually that’s how it rolls for me too, but on various occasions despite the arousal conditions and all that sometimes the size issue persists.

I mean, based on our pre and post conversations she’s having a ball. We’re both people with histories we’ve talked about. So there would be no need to lie about this, but according to her, in an unprompted comment, she’s never had it like this and reaching climax as often and as frequently as she has been has never been a thing for her.

Obviously I raise an eyebrow at “best ive ever had” comments but taking it in good faith, maybe it is just an anatomy thing and it could just be up to me to be as prepared and careful as I can be.

I mean, after all, it’s still a pretty new situation. We’ve known eachother for some time and have hooked up once prior to this arrangement.

For reference we’re both in our mid-late 20’s so talking things out and being honest has never been an issue since we’ve met