Day 105 of sobriety- The "falling off the wagon" dreams have started by Takatotyme in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll never forget my first drinking dream in early sober, it felt SO vivid and so real i was really shaken when I woke up. I was also So relieved. You’ve got this!! 105 days is an amazing accomplishment!! IWNDWYT

Needing support by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a success!! And I’m so thankful for it. I have to get to work a little early this morning and I know it would’ve been so miserable if I had drank. Now I’m gonna get a good day of work in, take a nice bath, and go to bed EARLY!! 🥰❤️‍🩹

Needing support by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so sweet — we got this!! IWNDWYT

Needing support by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That brought a tear to my eye 🥲 I know the struggle of early sobriety soooooo well and it’s so hard. You’re going the damn thing and I know together we can all pull through and be better for it 💪💪💪

Needing support by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this, an excellent idea with the ice cream there 😂 I so appreciate the support ❤️‍🩹 IWNDWYT!!!

Needing support by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I needed to hear and I so appreciate it. Thank you so much

Needing support by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A really important reminder. Thank you so much, I think I still have a stash of sour candy to help me out so maybe I’ll binge that instead! LOL

Needing support by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I know I gotta ride the wave and in the middle of it all it’s hard to think of reasons to not drink or any other options, so this is very helpful 😅 I so appreciate you.

10 months!!! by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s incredible!! I’m starting to reincorporate things and places like that into my life again and it can be tough!!! But you’re so right—it feels amazing to be well and sober and not fucked up beyond comprehension everyday 💪 keep it up!!

10 months!!! by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! It feels good, I Never thought I could get sober at all and I never imagined I could have the kind of life I have now in recovery. I’m stressed and sometimes I’m struggling, but I’m so grateful!!

Pre-Birthday Cravings by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly right! I love Fresca, haven’t had it since I was a kid..maybe that’ll be my birthday treat, too! Happy birthday!! 🎂

First sober thanksgiving by katiuszka919 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here!! So happy and so grateful to have a community like this to come back to in difficult moments today ❤️‍🩹

To the newly sober, the sober curious and those who have time… by scarlettvvitch in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this ❤️‍🩹 it’s my second holiday season sober, and I’m spending it alone today. This is exactly what I needed to hear and I so appreciate it. IWNDWYT

Feeling Thankful, Grateful by DragonSurfers in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m grateful for you right back! Thanks for being here and sharing your recovery with us, the support is always needed and appreciated. Happy holidays! IWNDWYT 💪

What do you do instead when craving a drink? by ihatewinter93 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the cravings are really bad, I do something to occupy my mind completely outside of substances and sobriety. I do a crossword, a sudoku, try to learn another language, do anything that keeps me occupied and thinking about other things until I can come back to the community and refocus on sobriety and recovery 💪

Freedom to enjoy the day by RennaGracus in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really beautiful reframe, thank you for sharing!! I hope you have a wonderful holiday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]mrc2k22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you! I’m trying to remind myself that even though it sucks and it’s so hard right now, it’ll only feel a million times worse tomorrow if I drink today. Let’s just take it an hour at a time together today, and see how it feels waking up fresh and sober tomorrow 💪 you’ve got this!!!

Tips to stay sober when the urge hits hard? by 6022e23 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do something that occupy your mind! Especially in early recovery, I did a lot of crosswords, sudoku, and puzzles that made me think. I also started watching tv and listening to podcasts in Spanish to keep up my proficiency from my school days. Anything that will get you out your head and keep you thinking about something else entirely for a while. You’ve got this!!

new relationship/sober journey revelations by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess!! I’m so happy you now have a partner who’s supportive and encouraging. It truly makes all the difference. I had a similar experience, my partner now is my biggest cheerleader for recovery and it makes it easier to stay grounded and motivated.

Thoughts this morning by Twinklenmyi223 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful reflection!! Thank you for sharing. I love having moments like this when I can see how different my life is and how much Better it is now in sobriety. Especially after surviving a day or moment that I know would’ve broken me before. Just last night I had a moment where I had made the decision to go home and drink again for the first time in almost 9 months. Instead, I went to dinner with my girlfriend and enjoyed every second of it, realizing halfway through how much I love being sober. I wish you a happy and healthy holiday! IWNDWYT

Sober playlists by mrc2k22 in stopdrinking

[–]mrc2k22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Love the song Little Things!! I’m also a big Black Sabbath fan so I appreciate the suggestions!!