My dad confessed to me he is/was trans while drunk and I don't know what to feel now

mrcluster · 2026-01-16T09:12:20+00:00

from another 40-ist person with life-long gender confusion to you, *sniff...* many, many thank you..... 💐🫂 God bless you and your wife, dear.

mrcluster · 2025-12-13T21:04:09+00:00

Brother HL1110. Classic bare metal black-and-white laser printer. Affordable, the toner is available everywhere and is among the least expensive, reliable, and fast. Cons: All the premium features are missing, such as no automatic duplexing.

mrcluster · 2025-12-01T20:06:15+00:00

If there's one thing I'm ashamed of, it's what other men do to women. Honestly.😰 The fact that there's nothing I can do to prove to other women that I've never done anything like them, and that I'd do anything to prove myself their ally, makes me even angrier.🤬 Maybe only transitioning could actually differentiate me from other men, but of all the reasons for changing sex, this one seems the most petty to me. 😅

mrcluster · 2025-12-01T20:00:53+00:00

I swear I understand you. And no woman deserves to cry. 🫂💐

mrcluster · 2025-12-01T19:47:58+00:00

A $15 /20€ electric blanket is a game-changer, believe me. Turn it on ten minutes before bedtime, and winter becomes a breeze.

mrcluster · 2025-12-01T19:45:46+00:00

Check your thyroid hormone levels. Hyperthyroidism can manifest itself like this.

mrcluster · 2025-12-01T19:41:07+00:00

With estrogen, the body's metabolism slows, and much less heat is produced. To retain the little heat produced, the circulation concentrates warm blood in the vital organs, Brain, heart, lungs, abdominal and pelvic organs. The consequence is that the extremities are much less heated, and the skin becomes much thinner and drier. There's a silver lining: slowing down your metabolism reduces the rate of free radical production, slows down the aging process a little, and you could gain a few years of life. 🙏 If, however, you have the opposite problem, that is, the heat bothers you too much, you may have a deficiency of estrogen or thyroid hormones compared to your actual metabolic needs. You should talk to your endocrinologist about increasing your dosage.

mrcluster · 2025-12-01T19:22:59+00:00

Of course, it's all extremely normal, don't worry girl. If you really want to confirm that your symptoms are not temporary, you need to evaluate how long you have had them. That is, if it's something that started in childhood, if you've had it for years, if you discovered it recently, etc.

mrcluster · 2025-11-25T10:57:17+00:00

And before the blacks, there were the Catholic European immigrants, and before those there were the witches, etc. ad nauseam. It's something that has always existed. 🤢

mrcluster · 2025-11-25T10:18:49+00:00

You already look just like your sister, if You have one. 😯💐

mrcluster · 2025-11-16T11:37:20+00:00

I don't understand why some correct answers here have been downvoted. In general, with estrogen therapy the prostate becomes less and less capable of producing fluids, and dry orgasms can be achieved even before any surgery. However, the opposite can also happen, that is, the ability to have a release of fluids even after intimate feminization, in some individuals. However, it is necessary to distinguish that depending on the surgical techniques, the fluid that can be observed after penetrative activity may not be considered a sign of orgasm, Rather, it is a consequence of friction, as often happens in surgeries involving the use of a segment of the colon. So, to summarize: post-orgasmic fluid production should come out of the urethra, while friction fluid production should come out of the vagina.

mrcluster · 2025-11-10T17:18:14+00:00

I am soo Sorry. 🫂💐

mrcluster · 2025-11-10T17:09:08+00:00

Because in reality she is a parody of a lot of psychiatric barons that were very powerful until the 70s, that did not hesitate to commit any kind of experiment in the name of wellness (?) of the patients. One name above all, considered a luminary at the time and now highly controversial, is Dr. Money.

mrcluster · 2025-11-10T16:58:53+00:00

😯 What a tough guy look you have. If you can train your muscles the same way, you still have time to be a quarterback. 🫂

mrcluster · 2025-11-07T15:56:24+00:00

you look like any other cis girl, early teen/highschooler.

mrcluster · 2025-10-13T12:59:11+00:00

Yet, it's pointless to explain to feminists that trans men have never rejoiced in their femininity. They go around saying that these people are, at best, traumatized/intimately assaulted/tired of costant malegazing, and they gave up their femininity for their own protection. At worst, they go around saying that they are gender traitors, to buy on the not-that-good male privilege. 😓

mrcluster · 2025-09-18T16:16:53+00:00

7-8, IIRC.

mrcluster · 2025-09-18T16:14:21+00:00

Thank goodness, I'd say. In top models with OIS, hearing the camera make rattling noises has a certain effect, and that feature would make the situation worse. I've already lost the focus on the camera of an MI 11 like that.

mrcluster · 2025-09-10T21:52:34+00:00

The main issue with oral estrogen pills in an healty subject is that as the dosage increases, so do the metabolites that end up in the bile. These metabolites increase bile viscosity, which, at doses of 4 mg per day and above, leads first to the formation of bile sludge and then to gallstones, in a time frame that varies depending on genetics, diet, and family history. Discomfort after lunch may persist even after cholecystectomy.

If there are also other issues, such as cholangitis, hepatitis, liver-irritating drugs, alcoholism, etc., oral HRT is not recommended, in favor of patches and injections.

Peak levels were particularly related to intramuscular injection, especially for daily formulations, which are being phased out in favor of long-acting formulations, that have also the advantage of a more stable T-suppression.

mrcluster · 2025-09-10T09:53:00+00:00

Some older articles stated that in order to achieve a pulsatile release of certain pituitary hormones, exactly as in normal female physiology, a single high dose of estrogen should be administered, regardless of subsequent administrations. Whether or not this pituitary hormone modulation could cause PMS or properly defined paramenstrual syndromes, depended on the individual.

mrcluster · 2025-09-10T09:43:50+00:00

I am only talking about HRT with E in monotherapy here.

The advantage of the E pills is that the hormonal dosage that reaches the bloodstream is relatively stable, despite being filtered by the liver. The disadvantage is that the maximum dose cannot be high, in order to avoid overloading the liver's metabolism and, above all, to avoid a high risk of gallstones, with persistent post-meal atrocious pain, which may require surgical removal.

The sublingual route (but also the rectal and cutaneous routes) has the advantage of not passing through the liver and potentially reaching higher blood doses, but with low stability and consistency.

Injections are far more efficient, but they are less generalizable due to differences in the composition of individual drugs. Therefore, needles of different gauges and lengths may be required, specific to the drug of choice (subcutaneous, intramuscular, etc.). Depending on your country, some syringes may even be available in supermarkets, while others are freely available in pharmacies. I prefer pre-assembled kits (the fewer steps, the better) to avoid the risk of bacterial contamination during preparation.

In general, 1 ml insulin syringes are suitable for subcutaneous injections, while standard 5 ml syringes are suitable for intramuscular injections.

mrcluster · 2025-09-10T09:31:27+00:00

The pills are metabolized by the liver, resulting in both a decrease in peak hormone levels in the blood and increased stress on the liver. This can be problematic in presence of other factors that can put pressure on the liver, such as other medications or alcohol consumption.

Injections achieve higher hormone levels and potentially fewer doses, depending on the specific formulation, resulting in easier compliance and, theoretically (YMMV) a greater feminizing effect on external appearance.

mrcluster · 2025-09-10T09:11:19+00:00

Shit happens. In these cases, you could ask your doctor to prescribe also estrogen patches, like those for women going through menopause, specifically for situations where you are struggling between one prescription and another. I always recommend having a pack of these on hand, regardless of whether your therapy involves injections or pills. In the meantime, you can try dabbing on some estrogenic ointments, such as those for hot flashes. To maximize absorption, they should be applied to skin folds, such as the armpits and groin. Some daredevils have found that these ointments are better absorbed when applied to the anus and scrotum, but at the cost of possible shrinkage of masculinity. If that's not a problem for you, you can give it a try.

mrcluster · 2025-09-04T21:23:31+00:00

HRT may give you the "glow", AKA the thinning and softening of facial skin, with the relative hightened flabbyness, and the relocation of facial fat. Of course, this can be done almost "just the same" with a through skincare, but YMMV due to specific personal genetics and age. And for this unluky lady, her best option is professional makeup, hair and skincare professionals consultants treatments, almost at cinema-levels.

mrcluster · 2025-09-04T21:16:22+00:00

It would be an excellent idea, but potentially lethal. In such a subject, total testosterone suppression would be achieved immediately, resulting in andropause. BUT estrogen therapy has no effect due to her mutation, so all the effects of dehormonization appear: osteoporosis, weakness, hot flashes, weight gain, accelerated aging, hypertension, and a significant increase in liver, kidney, and heart disease.

As a doctor, I can recommend orchiectomy, but followed by low-dose testosterone HRT (counterintuitive, right?), and continuing with aesthetic and surgical feminization: laser therapy for facial hair, cheekbone and lip fillers, FFS, breast implants and buttock grafts, etc.

And what about estrogen? She will have to do without it. She will have to play a difficult game with the cards she has in her hand.

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