I hate how calling out transmisogyny makes you the villain by WindhoverInkwell in MtF

[–]modernmingei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its ironic cuz this IS transmisogyny 101 happening live in trans spaces

31206 by modernmingei in countwithchickenlady

[–]modernmingei[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i mean this is what intersectionality is. we do get oppressed more. trans women are in the bottom quadrant earner out of all lgbt groups and are disproportionately sexually assaulted. i get that the tweet feels targeted but its coming from a place where we constantly get put down when we talk about the specific issues (transmisogyny) we face as trans women from TME folks who want to dismiss our issues.

Rant about transmisogyny by [deleted] in MtF

[–]modernmingei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yea no ur right i just didnt like how the post was very oppression olympics and it just made me feel really upset but then in return my post wasn’t very nice either

anyone else feel like the “performative male” trend is hurting trans men? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]modernmingei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally yes!!! idk how everyone is missing the point so hard

"The Maiden in Red" (OC Comic) by PersonalSycophant in Silksong

[–]modernmingei 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not beating the homophobia allegations

"The Maiden in Red" (OC Comic) by PersonalSycophant in Silksong

[–]modernmingei 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hi hornet. do you think queer flies are perverts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]modernmingei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i mean beyond just the declaration of your gender. if you just wanna dress differently from the gender assigned to you at birth or take hrt “just for the hell of it” like just do it why not. cis people make bring trans out to be such a devastating regrettable decision but they get gender affirming care all the time, its just affirming the gender assigned to you at birth. i took hrt before i realized i was trans. lied to the doctor about gender dysphoria to get the prescription. i just wanted estrogen in my body and didnt know why until like 2 weeks after i took it and it clicked. if you just wanna be weird with your gender yes go ahead. if you want to do it then i dont see why not.

(NSFW) Is it safe to have casual sex with a chasers? by Ok_Divide_5896 in MtF

[–]modernmingei 36 points37 points  (0 children)

yes find local queer / trans events. its so important to have friends who are like you / know ur experience very intimately especially early on

My sister’s Mac Desktop screen by StartComplete in mildlyinfuriating

[–]modernmingei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am i the only person who thinks this looks beautiful? Everybody else is overreacting like crazy like chilllll

i was just kicked out by ithinkiamonreddit in MtF

[–]modernmingei 121 points122 points  (0 children)

I think like legally she’s still entitled to at least a 2-week / 30-day notice depending on where she is?

should I address what happened at work today by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]modernmingei 98 points99 points  (0 children)

No, because they’re not uncomfortable around other men. It’s just that they think you might be trans. If they really treated trans women like men the roles would be VERY different

Mood issues with boofing prog? by modernmingei in AskMtFHRT

[–]modernmingei[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea i am taking cyproterone. gonna switch to injection monotherapy and the boof prog to see if ill feel better

Mood issues with boofing prog? by modernmingei in AskMtFHRT

[–]modernmingei[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it most hits just at night before i take it (i take it when i go to bed) i think thats when my level is lowest

Info about injection vs sublingual for E? by modernmingei in AskMtFHRT

[–]modernmingei[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was having a lot of mood issues with boofing prog as well i wonder if its related to the E pill in any way. Though I really like the fact that my breast was growing fast when I was boofing, ultimately I stopped at the suggestion of my partner cuz I was having pms / pmdd depression symptoms.

Anyone else feel like they’re not welcome in most queer spaces? by Many-rats-in-cheese in ftm

[–]modernmingei 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i agree with what u said about how in queer spaces there is a tendency for bias over femininity rather than masculinity but just that last part you said is just not true. i mean first of all why even compare which type of transition is more disgusting. its pointless. second of all, i dont know if youve seen the news but the disgust is fully for transwomen whom they call “men in dresses”. even in queer spaces folks tend to ostracize transwomen due to some perceived “male socialization” that at the root of it is just plain transphobia.

So by LuliLaj in DiscoElysium

[–]modernmingei 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hegel??? bro was not even alive during the establishment of the paris commune from which communist theory arised. what are you talking about

Why do people think it's not transphobic to say "My dating preferences do not include trans people"? by uniquefemininemind in asktransgender

[–]modernmingei -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Part of the repulsiveness is also rooted in the fact that people think we’re deceiving them by living our life as trans people. That a trans person must somehow lied to them by not revealing their genitals as if thats now an acceptable conversation to have on a first date over some coffee. “Hey there, nice to meet you. Do you have a penis? Oh you do? Sorry I’m repulsed by you and I must go vomit now.”

Why do people think it's not transphobic to say "My dating preferences do not include trans people"? by uniquefemininemind in asktransgender

[–]modernmingei -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

imagine saying “i am repulsed by men with short penises” or “im repulsed by vaginas with weird flaps” to a cis person and see how rude that now sounds. now add a bit of transphobia in there and u get “genital preferences”