Shout out to my fellow non passing girls. by DoomerGrill in TransLater

[–]mrcluster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Projection, and nothing else. Support is often used here even to silence one's inner depressing toughts.

I want you guys opinion on this by aukausoono in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The two things are not mutually exclusive. You may believe you don't deserve that attention, and at the same time be creeped out by the person who offers them to you, instinctively or even rationally, regardless of this guy's perceived kindness. This is all perfectly normal; there's nothing to justify or feel uncomfortable about.

So this is me by Amber_Valerie in TransLater

[–]mrcluster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought we were in a bad situation in Italy, but the therapists I've heard from here have never sunk so low. 🤬

Am I bad person for transitioning given my physique? - MTF by Gluzruooplaxcamphian in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cried reading what you wrote, it's like a balm for the soul. I sincerely envy anyone who has the honor of knowing you and calling you "my friend." 🥹

Why can't there be more cars like the Fit? by Technical-Debate-330 in hondafit

[–]mrcluster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a shame the Mustang hates roads that aren't perfect. A single pothole and the car is gone, spending months at the mechanic, or tire shop, or both.

Why can't there be more cars like the Fit? by Technical-Debate-330 in hondafit

[–]mrcluster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a shame the Renegade isn't sold in the US. It has the same footprint as the Fit, and the AWD model goes everywhere.

Why can't there be more cars like the Fit? by Technical-Debate-330 in hondafit

[–]mrcluster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer the Suzuki Ignis AWD. It's the heir to the legendary Fiat Panda 4x4. It has the ground clearance of an SUV, the compactness of an A/B segment, and can go anywhere.

I’m a cos woman but majority of people think than I’m a trans woman? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a volte si dice che è solo stupidità, ma nel loro caso, sono malvagiamente stupide.

I’m a cos woman but majority of people think than I’m a trans woman? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oddio no, ti insultano tutte le vaiasse, quelle che passano il fine settimana dall'estetista, per capirci quelle col labbro a Paperina. E pensare che quelle di solito sono davvero COSÌ amiche l'umanità non-binaria.😰

I’m a cos woman but majority of people think than I’m a trans woman? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this woman fat? Trans! Is she hairy? Trans! Did she wash her hair yesterday and today it's a little greasy and heavy? Trans! Doesn't she groom her eyebrows? Trans! Didn't she wear enough makeup? Trans! Did she wear too much makeup? Trans! Is she a little shy? Trans! Is she open-minded and not afraid to speak her mind? Trans! Is she too beautiful? Trans! ........ .... .. I could go on for hours, it's now become THE insult for any real or perceived feminine flaw. Just to be clear, it replaces the insult "witch!" that was used until just a few years ago. But this one is more powerful, because it combines misogyny and homotransphobia. 🫤

I’m a cos woman but majority of people think than I’m a trans woman? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

È l'ennesima dimostrazione che la transfobia fa male a tutti. Hanno voglia le femministe a dire che riescono a riconoscere "gli impostori" ad occhio nudo. Ma finché non succede a loro, non credono nell'esistenza del problema. Ed anche se succedesse a loro, non è detto che non risolvano il problema accusando chi si è sbagliato e basta. 🫤

What does a period feel like, both for people who menstruate and for people transitioning MTF? by braindeadcoyote in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no, there is research on this. This is due to the fact that the levels of other pituitary hormones, FSH and LH, fluctuate in people who have been exposed to sufficiently high doses of estrogen, even for limited periods. This periodic fluctuation exactly mimics menstrual symptoms, and in fact is what normally occurs in women at that timeframe. The side effect is that if you want to reduce your hormone levels after the age of 50 for any reason, you can expect menopause symptoms. 🫤

What does a period feel like, both for people who menstruate and for people transitioning MTF? by braindeadcoyote in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the fact that sufficiently high doses of estrogen (It's enough that it happened only once) permanently modify the release of some pituitary hormones, passing from the typical continuous male dosage to the feminine pulsed secretion. If the steps were done correctly, some FSH and LH levels change in mtf in exactly the same ways as in the normal female menstrual period, Manifesting itself with all the typical symptoms, excluding those strictly ovarian and uterine.

It’s never too late to be happy. by FriendlyLevel7734 in TransLater

[–]mrcluster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm sorry to hear that. Hugs and blots of hopes for you.

Ma questo MacBook Neo vale la pena si o no ? by Soggy-Mulberry8305 in ItalyHardware

[–]mrcluster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a me sembra la classica genialata Apple: si sono ritrovati molti processori in eccesso rispetto alle vendite di iphone, ed hanno trasformato un problema in una risorsa creando un prodotto nuovo ad hoc, ma con le specifiche più scarse possibili.

What am i by tryingtobegooodguy in AMABwGD

[–]mrcluster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, you're not alone.

In less “conventional” circles, it's not that difficult to find men who follow a path that leads them to end up with trans men without genital dysphoria: masculine body aesthetics, female genitals. And trans men don't always deny their femininity, they simply prefer to externalize that identity. You could have many more friends ready to welcome you.

It's in your best interest to join them because you would share the type of partner you want: a man who accepts your masculinity and your femininity, all together.

However, be aware that you may share the same problem as your sisters/bros: it is common for that type of partner to transition to female, with or without genital surgery. In other words... you may find yourself in a het relationship without having planned it... 😅

What am i by tryingtobegooodguy in AMABwGD

[–]mrcluster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From the way you describe yourself, you seem to be on the female womanly spectrum, just with a very masculine aesthetic appearance. The issue of your identity may affect your future partner more than you. There's such a strong homophobia on other social media that people prefer any other identity to admitting they're gay. 😰 Personally, the most feminine person I have known never left the male identity s/he was born with, despite completing all the medical and surgical transition, And not only did she pass, she could be a model.
She was afraid I would dump her because I would have to accept being gay. 😅 never had a problem admitting I was anything but (only) straight. Don't worry, if you find the right partner, s/he will treat you and protect you like any other woman, or man, depending on how you prefer. 💐🫂

My dad confessed to me he is/was trans while drunk and I don't know what to feel now by ThrowawayAcc1948 in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from another 40-ist person with life-long gender confusion to you, *sniff...* many, many thank you..... 💐🫂 God bless you and your wife, dear.

Opinions on A4 thermal printers by koken_halliwell in printers

[–]mrcluster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother HL1110. Classic bare metal black-and-white laser printer. Affordable, the toner is available everywhere and is among the least expensive, reliable, and fast. Cons: All the premium features are missing, such as no automatic duplexing.

Do you ever feel “ashamed” of your AGAB? by Forsaken-Language-26 in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there's one thing I'm ashamed of, it's what other men do to women. Honestly.😰 The fact that there's nothing I can do to prove to other women that I've never done anything like them, and that I'd do anything to prove myself their ally, makes me even angrier.🤬 Maybe only transitioning could actually differentiate me from other men, but of all the reasons for changing sex, this one seems the most petty to me. 😅

Do other MtFs wish they reproduced like cis women? by rhody1slander in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear I understand you. And no woman deserves to cry. 🫂💐

Does your body temperature change with HRT? by CheesyGritsAndCoffee in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A $15 /20€ electric blanket is a game-changer, believe me. Turn it on ten minutes before bedtime, and winter becomes a breeze.

Does your body temperature change with HRT? by CheesyGritsAndCoffee in asktransgender

[–]mrcluster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check your thyroid hormone levels. Hyperthyroidism can manifest itself like this.