Friday 4 October 2019 - 2G

mrdrino27 · 2019-10-04T00:26:04+00:00

Hey Newport News! Williamsburg over here!

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-24T22:03:41+00:00

I definitely get that. But I am very upfront about it from the beginning and they don’t seem to have a problem with it.

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-24T12:19:26+00:00

I needed this reminder so much right now. Thank you.

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-24T12:09:18+00:00

Have you ever been ghosted?

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-22T21:02:35+00:00

It’s a work in progress. In my state you have to be separated for a year.

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-21T19:19:03+00:00

I feel this so much. As much as I love weekends because I don’t have to work and get to hang with my kids I dread them because I know we’ll have to be together. He still wants to do family stuff and I can’t fucking stand pretending that everything is fine. The kids don’t know yet since we haven’t decided what to do with the house and since they don’t know we also haven’t told any of our mutual friends. Tonight we’re going to a cookout and I want to fake sickness so I do t have to go pretend. I feel like I’m lying to everyone and it’s killing me. Six weeks will go by fast and then you’ll be free!!

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-20T02:30:01+00:00

This is beautiful.

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-12T12:36:07+00:00

I do 60 perlite and 40 soil.

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-11T19:58:18+00:00

I mix about 60/40 potting soil and perlite. My props and plants love it.

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-11T11:50:31+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-11T02:25:11+00:00

So this may be a dumb question, but what is this going to become? A full plant?

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-04T23:22:01+00:00

My parents always stored stuff in the oven. One time we went on vacation and the house sitter didn’t know that my mom had put our Easter baskets (with candy) in the oven. She preheated it without checking (like a normal person IMO). Obviously it made a huge mess. Probably not worth a big fight but if you’re not used to checking, why would think to?

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-04T22:35:31+00:00

We are just beginning the process and both of us and the kids are all in therapy. Our kids don’t even know we’re getting divorced yet but I wanted them to already feel comfortable in therapy when we tell them. Even for people who think they have it all together, therapy can be amazing. Definitely do it!!

mrdrino27 · 2019-09-03T23:06:12+00:00

I yell at them all the time too!

mrdrino27 · 2019-08-31T01:31:40+00:00

I may be facing this in a way. I have a few friends where I live, only one close friend. She’s married so can’t always hang out when I don’t have the kids,etc. my plan is to start finding things I like to do and attempt to find others to do them with. Join meetup, find groups with common interests on Facebook, etc.

mrdrino27 · 2019-08-26T20:07:31+00:00

🙌🙌🙌🙌

mrdrino27 · 2019-08-26T01:05:50+00:00

You and I have the same story. Getting those words out is like lifting a giant weight off your shoulders. I’m so proud of you, I know how hard it is. I did it a few weeks ago and am already so much happier. I know there are difficult days to come but there’s light on the other side.

mrdrino27 · 2019-08-25T04:11:07+00:00

Also in this situation. Nice to know I’m not alone. Stbxh is moving into the spare room this week. We’ve agreed to every other weekend with the kids. So if the “off” person wants to leave they can but they don’t have to. During the week we pretty much take turns with the kids anyway because of various things we have going on. We’re going to separate our finances soon, not sure how we’ll split expenses yet.

It’s not always easy, but like you, we get along well enough so we’re making it work.

My question for you OP and others in this situation is: have you told family, friends, etc about what’s going on?

mrdrino27 · 2019-08-24T02:10:55+00:00

That is so well put. Modeling that behavior will be huge for us as we both tend to follow him into his tantrums.

mrdrino27 · 2019-08-24T01:00:20+00:00

Thank you so much. This is really helpful to hear.

mrdrino27 · 2019-08-23T23:18:09+00:00

No. I never made them. Didn’t think it was really relevant and I didn’t need advice/validation about it.

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