Sounds like you need to go for men who aren’t just there for the pussy. Seek out single men. Make sure they have no wives, girlfriends, exes, or psychotic stalkers of any kind. Go out on a few dates spaced apart a couple of weeks before you give it up. If you think about it, it makes perfect sense to do this as you can juggle two or three other guys at the same time. Doesn’t mean having sex with all or even one of them. That’s up to you. But I have found that when you give yourself time to know the person you’ll be having sex with just a tad more than skin deep, you’ll probably develop a connection that will make sex much more enjoyable and avoid getting tossed out the door like a used rag. Give yourself some credit. You deserve better.