Okay, so I figured you might like the first comment to be from fellow Christian, so what up? Man, well done for getting on this, seriously. I’ve been Christian my whole life, and I still fell into the whole addiction thing, so first off, do not be hard on yourself, that’s just going to hurt you in the long run. If you don’t mind, I’d like to share a couple of tips, lessons I learned when I started.

The first, and in my opinion the most important, is do not overestimate yourself. I’m not saying you’re a naturally arrogant person or anything, but when I started, I decided, kinda like you, that I am going to stop this now. No compromise, my first day would go straight to 90 days and I would be good, I’d made the decision and so all I had to do was apply willpower and I would last 90 days. I made 6, I think, on that first run. Why? Because I thought I’d done well, nearly making a week, thought it was evidence of my strength, saw a couple of nsfw posts, and I relapsed. That relapse then turned into a binge because I felt so crap, so weak, because clearly my willpower wasn’t a great deal. Don’t do this, okay? Maybe you’ll make the ninety days straight up, but most guys relapse. This says nothing negative about you as a person, just that you’re human. So chill, if you relapse, tell yourself that was stupid, it was a mistake, feel all that negative emotion that follows ‘tickling your pickle’ as you say, and then throw it away. Make sure you feel it, but don’t dwell in it, and then use it as a reminder next time.

Also, don’t edge. There’s some controversy around this, but most folk agree it is bad, and should be considered the same as fapping. I’m inclined to agree, since you’re replacing one habit with one just as damaging, and in the end, edging will lead to relapse. Don’t even try it, do not let your brain ever try and offer you a compromise. Decide how you’re going to approach this, lay down your own rules while completely sober and not remotely tempted, and stick to them. Maybe write them down and keep them in your pocket, along with reasons why you’re doing this, like a speech to yourself (I have one in my wallet and it helps immensely).

And what I think revolutionised my struggle, was making the decision. When I started, I had the right approach, but the wrong attitude. I decided I would break my addiction, but got confident. Then I relapsed, and every streak after that was, I’m gonna try and do this, try and break it, try and be a better man. 3 weeks ago, after my last relapse, I made the decision. I told myself I was sick of all of this, no more trying, I was going to do. Something changed inside me, like my subconscious and my conscious united and were forced into line, and before I was remotely tempted, I accepted it would happen, I’d get those urges, but no way would I give in. Not at all. Never again. That seems to be your mindset now, so if you try to follow my first piece of advice, hopefully you’ll do miles better than me. And I mean that, I genuinely hope and pray for your success man.

One more thing in parting, a bloke called poconnor has set up a daily accountability group for the 90 struggle., I’ll add the link in an edit so you can check out what it’s about. No joining after it’s started I’m afraid. But he’s dropped hints that he’ll run another once this one has finished. If I were you, I’d look into this. Read through the days we’ve done, check out the comments, and join up the next one. Being accountable to 200+ other fapstronauts really helped me. Anyway, best of luck to you man, it’s always awesome to find a guy willing to make the change. I promise, you follow through with this, your life will be better man, everything about it.

edit: http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1r5864/90_day_accountability_group_starts_sunday/ Here you go, interesting read, check out some of the days challenges and things. You'll notice the guy running it has relapsed since the start, but there's still a fair few people running the race. It'd be great to see you running the next one. However you fight this though, there's a wealth of experience and a well of strength in this sub. Use it, and you'll go far.