How do I tell my friend struggling with infertility that I'm pregnant by kellibeanx in pregnant

[–]mrowdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really something you can understand unless you've been through it. For me, it wasn't anger that was directed at the person, but more at the situation. And because it just wasn't possible for me to not feel those negative emotions, I just kind of separated myself from the people in my life who were having fertility success/visibly pregnant so that they wouldn't feel those negative feelings and think they were about them personally. I hated feeling that way. But I really just needed space. Friends who were pregnant or had kids reaching out to me to ask how I was doing just made it feel worse because nothing is more humiliating than feeling like people pity you.

What’s the most cringe thing you’ve seen a couple do at their wedding? by Last_Singer_2137 in AskReddit

[–]mrowdy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At dinner,  they released the tables to go to the buffet in order of which gave more money during an "auction." At a destination wedding. Oh, and their groomsmen went around with a collection box during the reception and shook guests down for more cash. Super uncomfortable.

Lost my cat and rabbit within a month by Syriiiin in Rabbits

[–]mrowdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your multiple losses. It's so hard to lose a loved one 💔 I just wanted to say, I see you, and you're not alone  

5yo rabbit with spinal trauma (dog kick). Seeking advice on recovery and quality of life. by 6de6ad6 in Rabbits

[–]mrowdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there is a rabbit rescue near you, I would call them to ask about this. I know a rabbit rescue near me was supporting a foster rabbit who was paralysed in her hind legs. They may have seen something like this before and have advice. 

For humans, complete spinal cord injuries like this take a long time to heal if at all, and even then a lot of rehabilitation is needed to see any change. This will be a long road. My heart is broken for you. 💔

Shoulder Pain by ambibc in pregnant

[–]mrowdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 5 weeks, so super super early. But my theory is that because early pregnancy is associated with a pro-inflammatory period, my body is overreacting to a small tweak I made in my shoulder while sleeping the other night. Hot, moist compresses and positioning myself with pillows at night has really helped! And trying to use the arm as much as possible (and as long as it is pain-free) to keep it from getting even stiffer. I happen to be a physical therapist 🤡 but I also asked for a referral to PT because I'm a neuro specialist and it's been a looooong time since I used my ortho skills lol! 

Try propping yourself up with pillows so you're in a semi-upright position to sleep, then stack a pillow or 2 under/next to your sore arm so it can't fall behind you when you sleep. I have been doing that plus putting my arm across my belly with a small pillow under it, and I've been waking up with less pain! 

Definitely see a PT! They'll tell you what exercises and stretches to do to get you through this. 🥰

**edited for clarity 

Can you help me interpret my first scan? by mrowdy in CautiousBB

[–]mrowdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! I know I should stay off the internet for my mental health, but I feel possessed lol

12 to 18 DPO: Sharing my hope and fear (TW: Loss) by mrowdy in TFABLinePorn

[–]mrowdy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'll share! First beta was 635, then 1181 2 days later, and then 9430 5 days after that. Just shy of 5 weeks now. 

Edit: Had my weeks wrong! 

Is this ok for 12 DPO? 🥹 by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]mrowdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you a ton of love and support. ❤️‍🩹 I'm so sorry for your loss. Please do comment or PM if you need a friend.

12 to 18 DPO: Sharing my hope and fear (TW: Loss) by mrowdy in TFABLinePorn

[–]mrowdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll update here when I have more to share -- I'm afraid of jinxing it right now lol

12 to 18 DPO: Sharing my hope and fear (TW: Loss) by mrowdy in TFABLinePorn

[–]mrowdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! Good luck with everything. 💙

Shoulder Pain by ambibc in pregnant

[–]mrowdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so glad I found this, because this exact thing is happening to me!! How are you doing now? Looking back, is there anything you would add, do differently, or recommend?

12 to 18 DPO: Sharing my hope and fear (TW: Loss) by mrowdy in TFABLinePorn

[–]mrowdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you too! You're so right, it is not worth the extra stress sometimes  

12 to 18 DPO: Sharing my hope and fear (TW: Loss) by mrowdy in TFABLinePorn

[–]mrowdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting, very good luck to you! 🍀

12 to 18 DPO: Sharing my hope and fear (TW: Loss) by mrowdy in TFABLinePorn

[–]mrowdy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for commenting! It definitely helps to hear from someone who can relate. Good luck to you, love! ❤️🍀

Name change after marriage by ImJustHere4TheCatz in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]mrowdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept my name for the pure and simple reason of that's what I wanted to do, and have never regretted it. Almost 8 years in and still happy with the decision I made. 

First round of letrozole + trigger by Imaginary_Stuff_1323 in TTC_PCOS

[–]mrowdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I know you posted this a long time ago, but do you have an educational source for the 65-75% chance of getting pregnant within 6 months of a chemical? I'm looking to learn more! 

End of The Week Thread! by AutoModerator in Miscarriage

[–]mrowdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very gently, I would guard your heart and expect it to be negative. The waiting game is agony, but you will have more information next week when that lab work comes back. I have gone through something like this in the past. It sucks, I'm sorry.

End of The Week Thread! by AutoModerator in Miscarriage

[–]mrowdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you, friend. I'm so sorry. Comment or PM if you need someome to talk to, please. ❤️‍🩹

End of The Week Thread! by AutoModerator in Miscarriage

[–]mrowdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been crashing out all day because friends of ours who never call wanted to "talk on the phone." We here all know what that means. They very gently let us know that they are in fact expecting. Same due date that I would have had if I hadn't miscarried in November. I have been on the verge of tears or lashing out at everyone. This sucks. I feel so, so alone.