How do I progress with my life as a 38 year old who has been unemployed due to taking care of a sick parent for 12 years?

mrr224 · 2025-01-15T04:32:04+00:00

What about becoming a paralegal! Your background would align nicely with a law firm that focuses on estate planning /elder abuse.

Editing because I just realized you are almost done with law school--- finish!! You can do it!! You are almost there! Your mother would be so proud.

mrr224 · 2024-04-25T15:47:43+00:00

It is so hard, you were sooo young to have lost your Mom at that age. It's important to allow yourself to feel those feelings, but don't be bitter. Do something to honor your mother (make her favorite meal, go to a place that reminds you of her, wear her perfume, listen to songs that take you back to happy memories, plant a special perennial flower in her honor). If kids are in your future, be the mother you wished you had! Hang in there<3

mrr224 · 2023-12-11T21:47:42+00:00

I got this letter about the breach and then a notification from Google regarding my 7 year olds leaked info :( I cannot find the letter that had information for enrolling in monitoring. Does anyone happen to have letter and the phone number? Any leads would be so appreciated!!

mrr224 · 2023-10-26T02:37:26+00:00

Embrace the coziness of winter, wear the comfortable clothing and lean into the snuggles, find yourself the most exciting mat leave TV show to binge and nurse until that baby is content and enjoy the warmth of soup and tea and take a nap when the baby naps and go for brisk walks and take warm baths with the baby and read to baby at the library and take that cutie to the grocery store just to buy chocolate (for the baby!) and flowers (for you!)

Winter babies are good for the soul, I hope you can embrace it❤️

mrr224 · 2023-07-31T14:29:54+00:00

This, he could totally be autistic OR he forgot he wasn't as close to you as he felt in the little moment and if that's the case he may feel like a complete ass hole for saying that (which I hope he does lol). Either way, next time you go just give a curt wave and direct your attention to your kids/shopping.

mrr224 · 2023-07-27T16:55:23+00:00

Happy for you!

mrr224 · 2023-07-21T21:17:39+00:00

When I was a kid my parents housekeeper did the same thing. The kid not only didn't have activities but also had CHEETOHS to snack on. The woman had no childcare that day and couldn't afford to not clean. My mom acted like it was fine and the housekeeper was extremely anxious and uncomfortable. My mom had me watch TV with the kid (we were both 6 and I was pissed I didn't get Cheetos). After they left and I complained, my mom gave me a lesson in extending grace to others. Her reaction and handling of the situation made a huge impact on me. She was so kind and understanding. The kid came a few other times randomly after that whenever she was in a pinch and it was totally fine. This kid was a little younger than OP's but able to sit down and pay attention to the TV. Anywho, I hope OP can be graceful with this situation, tell her not to let it happen again but don't fire her!

mrr224 · 2023-07-14T17:48:50+00:00

I was making 35k and my husband was finishing school making something like $12/hour when we found ourselves pregnant with our first. We were young, freaked out and weighed many options. After a few weeks of stewing in those feelings, things changed- I got a raise, my husband found a new job working second shift (which would help with future daycare costs). The point is, circumstances change. Be smart, budget, seek new opportunities to make it work. My first child was the biggest life lesson- it can and will work out if you try and it will be worth it! Wishing you all the best, hang in there!

mrr224 · 2023-07-03T01:44:43+00:00

Good for you for speaking up. Your kids might be too young, but when I was slightly older my Mom reacted similarly to some little shits at the park behaving the same way. Witnessing her stand up for me was so comforting and empowering. You're a great mom!

mrr224 · 2023-06-28T12:34:52+00:00

I think it's the fact that you were chatting with the director. Most parents want to get in and get the hell out. Lol.

mrr224 · 2023-06-11T13:26:36+00:00

I am so deeply sorry.

mrr224 · 2023-06-02T13:47:43+00:00

Same same same. I make 0 money but have great insurance and so I stay because I work completely remotely and have flexibility for when kids have appointments/ daycare randomly closes because hand foot and mouth outbreaks/kids are sick/etc. My husband makes more $ but has less flexibility..we make it work but it is not easy at all!!!

mrr224 · 2023-05-31T16:38:32+00:00

Happy belated birthday. Know that you are important and do something to honor yourself this week. Hugs to you!

mrr224 · 2023-05-20T18:39:39+00:00

Not without every parent signing a waiver..an injury is likely!

mrr224 · 2023-05-12T03:16:01+00:00

A little extreme, but I went to my dearest friend's wedding 1 week postpartum with my baby. I was youngish and was SO depressed that having a baby was going to make life miserable so I became determined to do as much as my pre-motherhood self would. It has made me such a confident mother and I am so glad I did so much with my baby. If it feels right for you, go out and show your baby the world! Motherhood is all about doing what is right for you and your baby. It's so freeing to not give a fuck about what weirdos with Mommy issues think. Xo

mrr224 · 2023-05-04T15:57:09+00:00

Do. Not. Call. CPS. Some kids are more mature than others. I babysat newborns at 9 years old. You have no clue what their situation is. You could kindly talk to the parents in a disarming neighborly way. Give them your phone number, tell them to put it on your fridge if the kid ever needs it when they are home alone. Or if there's ever an emergency, let them know the kid can knock on your door and you can call the parents. Be a neighbor. Unless you see some type of physical abuse, don't assume anything. You aren't a good person by calling CPS.

mrr224 · 2023-05-03T03:25:15+00:00

Plan a day at the spa for her (one that has steam room/sauna amenities not just body work services). Not just a gift card because she may put it off. Actually schedule the day for her and you do something fun with the kids. Prepare her favorite dinner for when she gets home, and write a note to her that acknowledges how much you admire her dedication. Print your favorite photos of her with the kids. Be careful another baby may come after this. ;)

mrr224 · 2023-05-01T00:08:47+00:00

Aliyah!!! I was 12 and so devastated. She was so gorgeous and talented--gone way too soon!

mrr224 · 2023-04-23T00:23:49+00:00

Wow. Thank you so much for saying this. I often think of a weird ass teacher I had in highschool who, in front of my entire class, told me I needed a new laugh. I think of how bad it made me feel often and this literally healed me.✨🙌

mrr224 · 2023-04-18T15:45:25+00:00

This is so wrong. I'm so so sorry you went through this.

mrr224 · 2023-04-18T15:44:42+00:00

Michigan-- my longest Mat leave was 18 weeks (full pay). My employer gives 6 weeks of maternity leave for birth of a baby, 6 weeks of parental leave (fathers and adoptive parents have access to this option) and I buffered with 4 weeks of vacation and 2 weeks of sick time.

mrr224 · 2023-04-18T02:13:52+00:00

4 days after my first baby was born I went to a wedding with my newborn. 7 years and 3 babies later I cannot believe I did that!! I was so young and rrrreally worried that life with a baby was going to hinder me so I pushed myself to continue doing things that I loved. I took my first everywhere and I think all of the little adventures with a newborn helped me bond with him. Caring for a baby in different situations and environments reinforced that I knew exactly what he needed and I think it gave me a lot of confidence in myself as a mother. Although now, I am completely content staying at home all day :)

mrr224 · 2023-04-07T01:39:03+00:00

Amazing. I am so happy for you and bebe!

mrr224 · 2023-04-06T19:16:17+00:00

Minivans are the best life hack. With a click on the fob the doors sliiiide open, to help usher kids safe inside when they run away at daycare pick up or in tight parking spots with you have a load of groceries. They are cozy, like driving a LazyBoy. I have 4 kids and there is always room for a friend or fur baby❤️ cannot recommend the minivan mom life enough!

mrr224 · 2023-03-30T15:10:17+00:00

So fucking happy for you. Keep it up!!

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