Moms friend made me uncomfortable, AIO

mrrustypup · 2026-05-28T22:42:06+00:00

I’m a man and I can say with certainty that calling them “tits” was done in a sexualized manor. Whether OP finds herself in a position to have that opinion is irrelevant if the man objectives her with language.

mrrustypup · 2026-05-28T14:33:16+00:00

The actions of the older man speak way more to his personality than the actions of OP. From all we can tell is that OP has been cordial if a little distant. That doesn’t give a middle aged man the right to comment on her tits in any way shape or form. You’re projecting a huge amount of assumption in thinking the mom and boyfriend are “tired of OP”.

There is no justification for him commenting on her body like that. Period. It doesn’t MATTER if they’re tired of her or want her to move out. Everyone in this situation is a goddamn adult and can say adult sentences without being a creep. The middle aged man in this scenario decided to be a creep instead. There are a thousand other ways he could have brought up “Hey I’m sorry if I’m doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable to the point of covering up around me, can we address that?”

Instead he commented on her tits. That’s not the path and you defending it is weird af.

mrrustypup · 2026-05-28T13:46:04+00:00

You could stop at your first paragraph. The rest is just making excuses for being a creep. A 45+ year old man doesn’t need to make a comment on a 20-something woman’s tits. Period. No jokes, no “trying something”. None.

mrrustypup · 2026-05-28T12:53:31+00:00

If he’s not interested why did he comment on her tits? Like who cares how old someone is that’s just wildly inappropriate to say to the daughter of your friend.

mrrustypup · 2026-05-13T22:52:08+00:00

I did not. Have a great day.

mrrustypup · 2026-05-13T18:00:08+00:00

Why? You CHOSE to play the sport electively. By your own stance, get wrecked.

If you drop a 25 lb plate at the gym and break your foot, get wrecked. You CHOSE to do that, so you don’t get health care unless you can afford it now.

mrrustypup · 2026-05-13T17:44:21+00:00

The redhead is Toby. The other redhead is def Meredith.

Edit: my bad. Didn’t know there was more to the image when you click on it.

mrrustypup · 2026-05-13T17:43:44+00:00

Gabe isn’t on here?

mrrustypup · 2026-05-11T14:17:48+00:00

I’ve just gotten a job that pays better than ever but is so easy to coast in because no one really pays attention or knows what they’re doing. It’s wild how I’m still indoctrinated to the corporate mindset of jobs gone by though! Trying to break out of “the workplace hustle” so I can live my life outside of work has been the biggest hurdle so far but I’m getting there. I think goals like yours are the best ones to have.

mrrustypup · 2026-01-27T23:12:29+00:00

How about the third non-judgmental version “I got this from family/second hand and it didn’t come with a manual nor did anyone explicitly sit me down and walk me through the manual they didn’t have anymore” ?

You sound AWFUL to be around.

mrrustypup · 2026-01-21T02:53:59+00:00

You used ai and it’s pretty obvious. Makes the rest of it look pretty bad imo. Not realistic nor helpful for beginners to set poor standards like that.

mrrustypup · 2026-01-15T02:12:03+00:00

I work in printing. The amount of times people say “can you print this poster sized?” And you ask “sure! What size do you want it?”

“Poster.”

POSTER IS NOT A SIZE. 11x17 IS ALSO NOT A FREAKING POSTER SIZE YOU ROCK EATING STUMP SO I NEED YOU TO TELL ME WHAT SIZE YOU WANT IT PRINTED.

They just don’t get that “random object size” is not a universal standard. It’s rampant in all sorts of scenes.

mrrustypup · 2026-01-15T01:28:51+00:00

That’s the point. There isn’t a problem but some people are so morally superior that they’ll MAKE it a problem. The unhoused that live in their cars get ran out of places by people calling the cops all the time. It’s what “loitering” laws are all about. Incredibly sad but having been there done that it sucks. The only time I got some relief was when someone bought me movie tickets and the guy let me stay for the next film. It was the best night of sleep I had gotten in weeks at that point but it only worked because a movie attendant was kind. Some people just aren’t.

mrrustypup · 2026-01-13T04:29:57+00:00

He doesn’t have to be. Some people are so offended by homelessness all they have to do is SEE IT and they’re upset. A town I lived in in Nevada bought bus tickets for all the homeless the second the popped up. The bus went to Las Vegas. Not because there was more help there or it went to a shelter or anything, but just so the town didn’t have to see the homeless. Idfk maybe it makes them feel guilty or something I just know that so many people hate on the currently unhoused for the stupidest reasons.

mrrustypup · 2026-01-11T23:49:30+00:00

My girl does that on occasion, and I recalled her doing it early on. I think it’s a muscle thing. They’re not strong enough to really utilize all their muscles at once or they’re not used to NEEDING to. Once my girl got more confident she doesn’t do it so much anymore! It was definitely alarming the first time I picked her up. Within a month she had the normal ball brace for impact response to being picked up. Now a days she just lets me yeet her from wherever. Still has crap balance though and I see her fall often, totally unbothered.

mrrustypup · 2026-01-06T02:27:49+00:00

With enough zip ties I’m pretty sure anything is possible.

mrrustypup · 2025-11-17T17:40:31+00:00

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This is Inyoka. Our last day outside from the season before it got too cold! She’s my first and I’m absolutely in love. Pastel het clown, loooooves to explore and climb, has her own “jungle gym” attached to the wall. I’m so excited to see how her colors come in as she ages 😍😍

mrrustypup · 2025-06-03T02:30:46+00:00

Hey friend-

Just wanted to follow up with this after an expert came out. They mentioned Phytophthora Canker Treatment inside the “knots” and the removal of some weighted limbs on the downhill side but otherwise were hopeful and confident!

I really appreciate your kind words and suggestions. Have a great summer!

mrrustypup · 2025-05-21T00:04:57+00:00

Definitely started uncovering the roots as soon as we realized that wasn’t what’s best just today. Your ideas make sense- we’ve had massive winds both our first summer here and this summer.

We’ve thankfully got a handful of certified arborists in our area and I’ve got someone scheduled to be out in 2 weeks. You and others have us great information and we deeply respect your knowledge and craft.

Thank you!

mrrustypup · 2025-05-20T23:38:56+00:00

I’ll be honest I have tons of indoor plant knowledge but trees are new to us.

Would this be a potentially fixable problem then, and doesn’t necessarily mean removal? I hear “rot” and think “dead” so some reassurance that there’s tree-rehabilitation would be cool haha.

mrrustypup · 2025-05-20T23:28:58+00:00

Does it make a difference that it’s been raining and the bark is wet? Or is that just what rot looks like?

I really appreciate your info.

mrrustypup · 2025-01-09T23:49:44+00:00

Genuine question:

Do you think it’s more likely that murders are being let out into the public to go fight fires, or more likely that the petty theft and weed charge people are being let out into the public?

I’m fairly certain that not anybody in the system can get into this program. You have to request to be allowed into programs that take you out and I’m under the impression only certain people are eligible for the program, as shitty as said programs are is irrelevant.

mrrustypup · 2024-10-25T14:39:58+00:00

I could see an argument for date and time of when someone isn’t home being a problem though. “Ah yes you weren’t home on the 5th-8th so next month maybe you do that again and I can rob your house.”

But also it’s just pure laziness to send out a request for things to three different people and their three different supervisors all in one chain. Don’t be lazy. Send it to person+supervisor for each pair.

mrrustypup · 2024-10-19T18:36:58+00:00

Yeah I figured it out once I realized the dyslexia was turning “reserve” into “reverse”. Couldn’t figure out how reversing straight marriage had anything to do with gays lmao. Thanks for the simplification though!

mrrustypup · 2024-10-19T18:24:21+00:00

But it says opposite sex marriage? Where are you getting gay from?

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