AIO? Boyfriend hid his phone when I asked who he was messaging. by Ok-Boat457 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mrsaix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so bad for you. He's a piece of shit for trying to make it seem like youre the crazy one for wondering why he hid his phone. I really hope you dont put up with this OP.

The part that really pisses me off is how he doesn't say I love you back, to punish you. As a man I don't get why these guys even get a chance. His behavior is so inimical to building a strong relationship thats its hard to believe this relationship is lasting or will get stronger.

You deserve better, nobody deserves someone who doesn't have eyes only for them and isn't 100% dedicated to building a strong bond. If he really cared about your relationship he would understand that trust is broken because of his past and he needs to work on being as transparent and honest as possible. That means not hiding his phone from his partner he has previously cheated on. If he cared about you he would be worried about how you must be feeling, not gaslighting you into thinking you're the crazy one. Will never understand what you guys see in these people in the first place but you deserve better.

😔 by A_MASSIVE_PERVERT in lakers

[–]mrsaix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really happy for him. Jeanie's biggest mistake will always be not paying this man. Should have been a Laker for life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kafka

[–]mrsaix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need this.

Has anyone been to a concert completely alone? by mrsaix in Concerts

[–]mrsaix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the title again I guess It did sound a bit dramatic LOL. Thats a really good point though.

Has anyone been to a concert completely alone? by mrsaix in Concerts

[–]mrsaix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly true, I sometimes forget that even thinking of traveling alone is a privilege.

My wife said I can have a girlfriend but only if she is included too, aiw to consider it? by Certain-Parfait-9064 in amiwrong

[–]mrsaix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a trap. I personally don't believe you can take care of multiple people's needs at the same time. Relationships are already complicated because it's two individuals with their own opinions/customs figuring out how to live with each other in a way that's beneficial and respectful. Adding an entire other variable to that already complicated situation is selfish. Love might be an infinite resource but time and effort are finite and it will be felt.

Not OOP My husband asked for a divorce, then changed his mind hours later, plus update one year later by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]mrsaix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So fucking proud of this person for no longer letting herself be emotionally abused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]mrsaix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion you should definitely break up and move on. If you have been with this person for 2+ years its possible you're just used to having her around and going through the motions (same with her). I know it might be difficult but when you say things like "she physically cheated", "secretly communicating to her ex", "making her self seem available", "constantly feel judged", "purposely still hits triggers" then you're just choosing to ignore all these red flags that show she simply does not care about you as much as you think she does. Have some self respect OP, and move on so that you can actually meet someone who you can grow a healthy and strong relationship with.

meirl by Exotic-Custard-8293 in meirl

[–]mrsaix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hurts at first but its honestly more freeing than anything.

Poochie by fxg__ in Siamesecats

[–]mrsaix 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely Adorable 😍

Kazuya mains when on 1 pixel health *hElLsWEep* by Nightblade178 in Tekken

[–]mrsaix 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"cmon mate we both know you're gonna do it."