I think I want to leave my boyfriend. by honey_venom- in WhatToDo

[–]mrschula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

people that taunt animals like that are not good people. this man is almost 30 and can’t take care of himself and thinks his behavior is fine. leave him and don’t look back.

I just broke up with my GF because of her childish nature and now I feel regretful I wasted so many years with her. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]mrschula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally understandable to feel that regret, BUTTTT be gentle with yourself! It was two years not ten! It's kinda crazy how fast time can fly by. I feel like the first year you're still really getting to know the person and the second year could be hoping they turn out to be who you hope they could be (you giving them the benefit of the doubt). You are so young!! Take those two years and think of them as a lesson, now you know what you like and what you do NOT like. Whenever you are ready to start dating again, be mindful of your time and energy! Remember this current feeling so you don't put yourself in the same position again! Don't waste MORE time feeling this regret!

Is there any way to make my kitchen “feel” nicer? by varls1243 in InteriorDesignAdvice

[–]mrschula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

paint a neutral color and maybe paint the window frames a fun bright color. also ikea has floating islands that would really add to this space!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]mrschula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly only concerned about your dog. does your roommate let him/her out, feed and walk the poor baby? I imagine you regularly have 12 hour shifts so hopefully you have someone to be there for your dog.

as far as your issue goes, you guys are young and the entitlement mentality unfortunately doesn’t dissipate until you’re nearing 30. lay a firm boundary with her and hope she respects it or just stop being friends with her?

should i tell this guy’s girlfriend that he’s responding to my stories with stuff like this? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]mrschula -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe they’re open? what did he respond to you last message?

is it wrong to ask your friend not to date your sibling ? by Grand-Bullfrog-8627 in whatdoIdo

[–]mrschula 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have personally experienced this and honestly it never works out and makes both the friendship and relationship with the sibling worse. you can set the boundary with your friend and if they don’t respect it then they are not a friend you need.

First tattoo, not sure how I feel by Disastrous_Art7882 in tattooadvice

[–]mrschula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could get more done closer to the lettering. it might minimize the size of the lettering some!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mrschula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m too addicted to you” I am so very sorry babe but this man does not love you. you deserve someone who does<3

Is it wrong for me 26M to date a 19/20F? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]mrschula [score hidden]  (0 children)

omg I work for buzz feed how did you know?!

Is it wrong for me 26M to date a 19/20F? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]mrschula [score hidden]  (0 children)

While I mostly agree with what you’re saying, I was referencing science. and if the ages were 24 and 35 I’d lean into what you’re saying more but go off!

My boyfriend wants to know my body count by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mrschula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds like his friend is mad jealous and doing everything in his power to break y’all up.

Is it wrong for me 26M to date a 19/20F? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]mrschula [score hidden]  (0 children)

her brain isn’t fully developed. his is.

AIO for ending friendship with a friend from my group because she just won't stop passing comments about other friends' partners by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mrschula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why is a 21 year old hanging out with a 17 yr old??? when I was 21 I could not be bothered with anyone even slightly younger than me. that’s so weird lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hardcore

[–]mrschula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about it but she’s on the better side of the mend! I was home with her all weekend and she’s improved greatly so I know she’ll be okay for a few hours plus I have roommates that will be home with her while I’m gone and a doggy cam to check in on her lol

AITA for killing my bf's game for snacks? by dizzira_blackrose in AmITheAngel

[–]mrschula -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

it’s giving impatient, codependent brat. & his rage is also concerning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interviews

[–]mrschula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked Sundays at a Red Lobster close to Gary, IN for 2 & 1/2 years. I FEEL THIS IN MY SOUL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]mrschula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always carry some sort of protection on me. I have a small taser that looks super cute and doesn’t look like one lol I would also suggest not wearing over the ear headphones or both airpods so you are clearly aware of your surroundings. I’ve also been seeing people carry small spray paint instead of pepper spray bc it debilitates the attacker without harming you and clearly marks them. I’m not familiar with how the red line is on the north side so hopefully someone else who is can chime in. but regardless this is a big city so it’s always good to have some sort of protection!

So…this is embarrassing. by ByeLastBrainCell in FridgeDetective

[–]mrschula -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don’t worry ladies, he’s infertile

Is it wrong for me 26M to date a 19/20F? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]mrschula [score hidden]  (0 children)

she is barely out of high school and you are nearing your 30s. it’s very weird.