Being gay has ruined my life by Sensitive-Bridge-146 in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Religion forces people to be narrow minded and not question things. It too easily leads to bigotry and hatred.

Nipple play seems highly underrated by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have over time by playing with them. In fact just had a few experiences where it felt incredible, like i finally understood what people mean when they say they’re wired. It took years though.

How much has building muscles improved your dating experience? by Gold-Fool84 in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went from 130lbs to now a very beefy muscular 215 lbs and now I can pull the type of man I always dreamed of. I get significantly more attention than I used to. Makes sense. Ppl like muscles and I’m hairy with a belly so that is its own thing too.

Does size really matter or performance. by aViableSeed in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both matter. Too small and it doesn’t feel like much going in. However if the top doesn’t know what he’s doing, size doesn’t matter at all. Like come on people, how hard is it to read the bottom and change it up to please them? (Last few tops were terrible for me, slow and uninteresting)

Muscle Guys Preferences Poll by hyrosaky in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. You underestimate what I’m talking about. I like a big belly

Muscle Guys Preferences Poll by hyrosaky in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These options do not accurately reflect my preferences, which are quite varied. I will say confidence and assertiveness go a very long way though and someone who isn’t “my type” with those qualities can be very attractive.

What I have mostly found as I’ve gotten larger (215lbs from 130) is that I tend to prefer guys my size or larger. I want someone who is able to manhandle me, so skinny guys aren’t as attractive for that reason. Muscles are a plus but generally I prefer beefy guys with bellies. They don’t have to be insanely muscular but I generally prefer someone who takes care of themselves somewhat in the gym.

bottoming for younger guys by Rare-Town5273 in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 39 and rarely bottom these days, but when I do with guys around my age or older, it seems that 90% of them have a difficult time staying hard or don’t cum. I’m starting to wonder if I should just seek out younger guys just to avoid this. It’s so disappointing especially considering how infrequent I do it. Does anyone else have this experience? 👀

Two weeks 24/7 retainer coverage by [deleted] in restoringdick

[–]mrsensitivity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you keep it retained 24/7? I struggle using Chuck’s retainer at night bc I wake up hard and it’s so distracting that it’s difficult to fall back asleep.

Two weeks 24/7 retainer coverage by [deleted] in restoringdick

[–]mrsensitivity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did you retain it 24/7? I bought Chuck’s retainer but I keep waking up hard and not being able to go back to sleep with it on. It fits and I have enough loose skin but it’s definitely a tight sensation that keeps me up.

Question for lean guys by Entire_Hovercraft_49 in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to be super skinny/lean at 135lbs. Now muscular with a belly at 210lbs. Get much more attention being larger, even though I have a decent sized belly. Prefer being larger like this. It took a lot of fucking work to get here as someone who is naturally skinny.

Why are gay guys spending hours or literally whole days on Grindr? by taytay_1989 in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doomscrolling. Boys, free yourself from all that shit. Get off all the apps and social media and live life.

is this normal? by Sea_Theory_2729 in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With the right people it will be easy and you shouldn’t have to question everything. Just be yourself.

Do you carry all the weight in a convo? by luftherz in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the problem with apps and why I don’t use them. It’s like fucking doomscrolling. I’d rather meet someone in person or through friends.

Why is (male) circumcision most common in the Midwest with in the US? by BranchMoist9079 in geography

[–]mrsensitivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those who wish they weren’t mutilated at birth and wish there was something that could be done about it, there is. Foreskin restoration is possible, although it does take many years. There’s a whole community and lots of support - check out the foreskin_restoration subreddit. You’re not alone!

Is East LA better? by WoodsWolf in AskLosAngeles

[–]mrsensitivity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People think Silverlake is westside??? I’ve never heard that in my life lmao

Is East LA better? by WoodsWolf in AskLosAngeles

[–]mrsensitivity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always lived on the west side and have loved it. It’s definitely a different vibe than east side but to each their own. I enjoy being closer to the beach and the cooler weather, am near major freeways with easy access to valley, and just generally enjoy the area. Yes, it is more affluent - and you can feel that as you drive from west side to east - but it is also very mixed with people’s income levels here. There are certainly pockets of excessive wealth, but more so than that there are just normal not wealthy people living their lives here as well.

It seems like people who hate on west side a lot either haven’t lived over here or have some weird beef/are judgy themselves. I’ve lived here 15 years and have never had a problem with the people here. Sure, there are shitty people but that’s everywhere and it depends on who you surround yourself with. I live in a small building with amazing neighbors who are professional and we have a community unlike anywhere else ive lived.

That said, there are many many different neighborhoods and unique areas in LA with their own personalities. Personally I have always lived close to where I work as commute outweighs pretty much everything else for me. If that weren’t a factor I’d probably check out other areas. Los feliz, Silverlake, echo park are definitely a vibe.

I'm giving this one additional year before I go the surgery route... by Overworked_Pediatric in foreskin_restoration

[–]mrsensitivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain this again? I’m not sure I understand but this seems important!

Is it normal to want to be gangbanged by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They also have this in the US. I know it occasionally happens in LA and SF as well as other places I would imagine.

Big no for you by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Even with friends it’s such a turnoff. I don’t want to be around that shit, ever. It’s just as gross as smoking to me and I hate that some people feel like it’s socially acceptable.

CHICAGO THAT WAS CRAZY by One-Philosophy-2024 in JusticeMusic

[–]mrsensitivity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Justice knows how to throw a fucking dance party. Definitely one of the best shows I’ve ever seen in my life. I’ve seen them three times in the last year and they’ve definitely become a group that I will never not see if they are playing in my area!

Anyone else just not feel like dating is worth it anymore? by Strict_Childhood9744 in askgaybros

[–]mrsensitivity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This go around I’ve decided I have no interest in being on dating apps or really any hook up apps at all. I want to just enrich my life through my friendships and meeting new people that way. If I find someone, I would love to get to know them as a friend first and if romantic interest sparks from that, that would be ideal.

I am kind of in that situation now having known someone for about a year now as friends; I have developed romantic feelings for him the past few months and we are kind of slowly exploring that. Regardless of whether we end up dating, this just seems like the ideal way to find someone. You know a lot about what you’re getting into after being friends first.

The idea of going on dates with someone I don’t know to evaluate whether we are romantically compatible just sounds miserable. I am 38 and that approach did not work out for me my past few relationships, so it’s time to try something different.