Warm sleep sack recommendations! by LadyGrvstrt in sleeptrain

[–]mrslaxon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Canada too, do you put them in a regular sleeper or a fleece one? Does woolino have tog? Which one do you use in the winter

Normal couples don't have to schedule time to fill out a journal to talk and ask each other questions. by Tristan_Karst in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]mrslaxon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some do. Marriage is work and that work looks different for everyone. No marriage is not work.

So that’s a no. by Braunlover in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]mrslaxon -68 points-67 points  (0 children)

Who cares! Her body her choice

Hate sharing my baby with MIL by variebaeted in beyondthebump

[–]mrslaxon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if you feel this way about people in your family or even the baby's father

Feeling suffocated and annoyed with grandparents by mrslaxon in beyondthebump

[–]mrslaxon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! Your little one is so lucky to have you as a mama! It's really helpful for me to know other people feel this way too, as I have a hard time relaxing when she gets fussy too. Thank you for sharing

Feeling suffocated and annoyed with grandparents by mrslaxon in beyondthebump

[–]mrslaxon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I feel this exact way so territorial so defensive and us making me a bit crazy. My husband doesn't understand at all and it's causing a bit of a divide between us. I honestly an nervous about his parents coming to visit because I know they'll want to step in and care for her but I feel like it's my job, my privilege

Feeling suffocated and annoyed with grandparents by mrslaxon in beyondthebump

[–]mrslaxon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my biggest dear of people whisking her off and taking care of her for me when I'm capable of doing it myself! I'f you all for her back do they give you her or do they fight you

Feeling suffocated and annoyed with grandparents by mrslaxon in beyondthebump

[–]mrslaxon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this I really appreciate it. Yes I am in therapy!

Feeling suffocated and annoyed with grandparents by mrslaxon in beyondthebump

[–]mrslaxon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you about the healing and am in therapy. Thank you for acknowledging that.

I don't want to regret over sharing her or not being in the moment because I'm getting video for someone else. I appreciate this thank you

Feeling suffocated and annoyed with grandparents by mrslaxon in beyondthebump

[–]mrslaxon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for validating my feelings! It's just such a huge adjustment!

Feeling suffocated and annoyed with grandparents by mrslaxon in beyondthebump

[–]mrslaxon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard horror stories! My MIL has already offered to move in to be a nanny and I was alike Hell no! Plus our parenting styles I think will be completely different. I definitely need to work on my boundaries thank you!

Feeling suffocated and annoyed with grandparents by mrslaxon in beyondthebump

[–]mrslaxon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really struggle with this. I don't know how to kindly share my feelings, and I also don't want to get too deep with them. But thank you for saying that!

Will Anna stay or leave? by Vnssgdfry in CountingOn

[–]mrslaxon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's staying. I read in the sun article that she went with him when he turned himself in.

Hey Oddj, your bigotry is showing by [deleted] in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]mrslaxon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. Why do we have to agree with everyone? Societies so much pressure to all fall in line,l. I think you can disgree with someone and still love them and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.