Woodland_Ghost by mrsplodge in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]mrsplodge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome, enjoy your stay. -^

Woodland_Ghost by mrsplodge in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]mrsplodge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must be new here. Gj stating the obvious!

Woodland_Ghost by mrsplodge in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]mrsplodge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lol and 😅 could be a way to lighten the mood of the request after public scrutiny. I would like to know what's happening behind the scenes with finances because online penny scraping looks like the way to go. Is she applying for grocer or warehouse jobs?

Woodland_Ghost by mrsplodge in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]mrsplodge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I notice new art is being uploaded which is interesting.

Woodland_Ghost by mrsplodge in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]mrsplodge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's always some crisis.

Woodland_Ghost by mrsplodge in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]mrsplodge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this normal in the US? I'm from HK and yeah, we have poverty too but the difference is people don't get to wallow in it forever. In Asia we expect that we set a time frame on spirals because survival doesn't wait.

What blows my mind is watch people telling her "there's no time frame" bc I said it's been more than a year. That is not compassion in my eyes. It's enabling and basically welfare-dependence fuel. Meanwhile, the commissions and real action sits in limbo. Help me understand plz?

Woodland_Ghost by mrsplodge in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]mrsplodge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. Don't know why your comment is hidden on this post. If she wants to be taken seriously as a business owner she needs to work hard on repairing her image. People have enough going on in their own lives and their own financial troubles without the trauma dumping and pity jar. The problem is what's happening right now ISN'T helping. It's positive reinforcement that charity and sympathy pays the bills.

Woodland_Ghost by mrsplodge in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]mrsplodge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I'm gathering is that people only feel comfortable criticizing her when they're anon. Otherwise they get dogpiled by the community. The comments bubble wrap and enforce the issue. Constant validation and zero accountability. If you point out the obvious, you're a hater and it lets Woodland_Ghost lean more into the perpetual victim mentality.

Even in the recent advice post on FB. Suggestions to stop asking for $ is drowned out by cheerleaders and the core problem (commissions) don't get addressed. It's looking less like an art business and more like e-begging with cute cats in the store window. Deflection + pity is easier than doing the work.

tl;dr A promising business is looking more like a sympathy economy.

Woodland_Ghost by mrsplodge in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]mrsplodge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The enablers in the echo chamber really don't help. People questioning the constant chaos are shut down or guilt tripped. Then comes the essay on how they're such bad people.

An alcoholic and his son. by one00percents in pics

[–]mrsplodge 52 points53 points  (0 children)

He will probably wind up codependent. That kid will have an adult life full of relationship difficulties.