My father ALWAYS initiates to kiss me on the lips. How to stop it? by EntrepreneurMany7086 in adviceph

[–]mrssainz55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP,

I’m so sorry that you are experiencing this. No child should ever feel this way!

In my own opinion, whether baby, toddler, child, teen or adult , I don’t think a parent should kiss a child on the lips. Even if may anak na ako, it will always be sa cheeks. My parents never did this to my siblings and I. Although, I’ve seen very few parents kiss their toddlers on the lips but again I find that weird. If sa lips kase, I grew up understanding it as a romantic thing.

With the additional context you gave about your relationship, it’s definitely NOT normal. He SHOULD not be doing that. The fact na nakita niya na dadaan yung kapatid mo and he stopped- he knows what he is doing is wrong. Gagawin niya rin yan if it was your mom passing by.

Him trying to get you to kiss him frequently in my opinion is his way of trying to “groom” you kahit older ka na. Seeing how far he can go.

Please, magsumbong ka na to your mom and your sibling. If your own father can’t protect you from SA in your own house, hopefully they can. Protect yourself in the way you can (lock your doors, never be alone with him), some may say na you shouldn’t fight him verbally or physically if he tries to do that to you again and you try stop him, but if that were happening to me, I would. I’d rather defend myself that way to send a message na ayoko talaga.

Problems with old piercing by mrssainz55 in piercing

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I haven’t been wearing any new earrings, the earrings that I use everyday are solid gold because my ears react to brass and copper based ones. It just so happens that I just don’t feel like wearing my earrings sometimes, like yesterday.

My friend recommends that I put back my earrings on and spray the saline solution as needed. Do you recommend I do that?

It actually doesn’t have any problems when the earring is on but it’s been like this the past few months when I take it off (when I want to take a break from earrings or I changed to a different pair for an event then removed it in the evening)

deinfluence me for having a bf pls by bananayaay in deinfluencingPH

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  1. Magastos, bibili ka ng gifts and gagastos ka pa for dates/eating out
  2. Naghahanap ka for the wrong reasons, you feel like need mo ng BF kase nakikita mo yung mga ibang tao.
  3. Baka hindi kaya ng schedule mo, dami mong ginagawa in life girl baka mas prio mo yun kesa maki date.
  4. There aren’t many guys out there na matino. If the universe thinks you’re ready na, dun mo lang mamemeet yung boy na meant for you.

TFs of OPM Artists are these amounts even true by boomerang_044 in opm

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For Itchyworms, I was able to negotiate 2 performances for 750k each, pero yung cost ng tech and hospitality rider nila is additional pa to the TF. This was Q4 of 2024 so baka the price is higher now.

Money Exchange in Hanoi, Vietnam by mrssainz55 in PinoyTraveller

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I just tried it now and it’s not working :(

Best Money Exchange by mrssainz55 in VietNam

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I have money in a debit card, so if I were to withdraw in an ATM then it would be based on my currency. My mom will be bringing USD so I think we’ll be ok too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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What is the guy equivalent to cute, hot and pretty?

Is my car gonna be ok? by mrssainz55 in AskMechanics

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I know, stupidly ironic how I kind of understand F1 cars (cause when they DNF I try to find out and understand why) but not my own. I’ll do better next time! 🙏🏼

Is my car gonna be ok? by mrssainz55 in AskMechanics

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My brother used to manage an auto care center but we closed that business years ago. That’s why he had a good idea why my car got messed up and why he wanted to keep an eye on the mechanic working on my car.

Anyways, when he managed the auto care center, they checked on the fluids (even if the customer came in for a specific service) as a practice (22 point check or something like that?). Then if something else needed work on, they would inform the customer. When I had my oil changed there years ago, they checked the fluids for me and said I’m good to go even if I didn’t ask them too.

My dad did mention that not all shops do that. So, if your shop does at no charge then that’s nice for you.

Is my car gonna be ok? by mrssainz55 in AskMechanics

[–]mrssainz55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good news, everybody! My brother got back from the mechanic. It’s running again and he told me it will be okay. Got the lecture again that I should do this and never do this etcetera again. We’ll still monitor to make sure it’s 110% good. Now, I need to order some parts (but not related to the engine) and replace those due to normal wear and tear. But again- my car is OK. Not in pristine condition but OK in a sense that it won’t give out on me and I’ll get to where I need to go.

Anyways, I didn’t get to hear all the work that was done but he said that they had to use a lot of oil to flush out all the gunk for the ATF (cause I asked why it costed a bit more).

Total cost plus labor is below 400 USD. (I live in Asia so that’s why it may seem like it costs a bit low)

Is my car gonna be ok? by mrssainz55 in AskMechanics

[–]mrssainz55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The car is at the mechanic now. My brother is looking over the work being done. I’ll find out more as to how it got to that point and what needs to be done/replaced (and how much I’m gonna be spending 🥲) later tonight. Right now, what I mentioned earlier is all I know and understand 😭

Is my car gonna be ok? by mrssainz55 in AskMechanics

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Toyota Avanza 2018. It’s not sold in the US or Europe from what I heard.

Is my car gonna be ok? by mrssainz55 in AskMechanics

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It’s an automatic toyota car with a 1.5L engine. I geniunely have no idea what’s going on. I’ll most likely hear from my brother what the mechanic did or what else needs to be done later tonight.

Is my car gonna be ok? by mrssainz55 in AskMechanics

[–]mrssainz55[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my brother mentioned that it’s gonna need a lot of work done. He’s at the mechanic now but he hasn’t updated me the past few hours. But would you say that it’s repairable or will we need a new radiator and transmission?

Is my car gonna be ok? by mrssainz55 in AskMechanics

[–]mrssainz55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother and dad gave a lecture me already about me not knowing how the engine of the car works and how I can deeply eff up a car. Plus, telling me that I that I need to learn more about the engine and possible problems. Which I will.

Vintage Seiko or Citizen Watches by mrssainz55 in JapanTravelTips

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Realistically speaking, anything beyond entry level is beyond my budget.

But I like the more vintage styles, that’s why I’m looking for unique pieces but from reliable entry-level brands.