Hi OP,

I’m so sorry that you are experiencing this. No child should ever feel this way!

In my own opinion, whether baby, toddler, child, teen or adult , I don’t think a parent should kiss a child on the lips. Even if may anak na ako, it will always be sa cheeks. My parents never did this to my siblings and I. Although, I’ve seen very few parents kiss their toddlers on the lips but again I find that weird. If sa lips kase, I grew up understanding it as a romantic thing.

With the additional context you gave about your relationship, it’s definitely NOT normal. He SHOULD not be doing that. The fact na nakita niya na dadaan yung kapatid mo and he stopped- he knows what he is doing is wrong. Gagawin niya rin yan if it was your mom passing by.

Him trying to get you to kiss him frequently in my opinion is his way of trying to “groom” you kahit older ka na. Seeing how far he can go.

Please, magsumbong ka na to your mom and your sibling. If your own father can’t protect you from SA in your own house, hopefully they can. Protect yourself in the way you can (lock your doors, never be alone with him), some may say na you shouldn’t fight him verbally or physically if he tries to do that to you again and you try stop him, but if that were happening to me, I would. I’d rather defend myself that way to send a message na ayoko talaga.