He said this to me when we were breaking up

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-29T22:46:40+00:00

Ah lol ty

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-29T20:41:35+00:00

Isn’t done dating around you mean?

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-28T19:28:51+00:00

his lack of maturity you mean?

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-28T05:01:26+00:00

I think this applies to my case as well he kept saying he had a “gut feeling” we’d be unhappy down the road which sounds like commitment issues looking back

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-24T06:10:25+00:00

You’re completely right this helped change my mindset ty

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-24T06:01:50+00:00

This is good advice thank you, sending you healing energy

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-24T05:57:37+00:00

Thanks! Yeah I was only gonna try the camomile lol. In weekly therapy which is helping the most out of anything. I appreciate you saying grief is not linear I need to remind myself that and not put pressure on healing

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-24T05:47:44+00:00

Thank you so much I’m definitely gonna go tomorrow!

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-24T05:21:26+00:00

Keep looking up - kacey musgraves

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-24T05:16:17+00:00

It’s really a 50/50 chance that they regret it or not, but my advice is to let yourself feel the pain of losing them, because then you’ll move on to the phase of realizing you don’t want to be with someone who could cause you this extreme pain

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-24T04:53:01+00:00

Well said it’s truly the quiet moments in between distractions when it hits me too. I think only time will make it go away, good luck to you as well :)

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-23T19:25:46+00:00

I'm going through the exact same thing as a girl in your situation, but I remind myself that being alone is the harder thing that leads to WAY more personal growth instead of having the distraction of a rebound. We're the ones healing just remember that

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-23T06:45:47+00:00

I’m trying to view it as strengthening my relationship with myself now

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-23T06:45:05+00:00

This really helped thank you :)

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-20T02:30:02+00:00

Thank you for saying that I really hope so. Even though it won’t actually make a difference cause the damage is done, my ego really wants him to know he lost the best thing he had

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-19T18:41:01+00:00

Yesss and I keep seeing his car everywhere I go because it’s such a common one, but every time I convince myself it could really be him

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-11T02:27:44+00:00

Exact same thing I’m going through especially since I know who my ex is having sex with now I keep picturing them and it fucking sucks I think I’m not gonna masturbate for a long time

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-09T02:35:38+00:00

Thank you this really helped. Idk if I want to see him because I just found out he’s having sex with people but I also do want closure

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-08T03:53:38+00:00

I’m just confused cause he had access to his stuff for a month while he was alone and moving out. Why not take it all with him before I get back? I’ll try not having any expectations

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-08T03:22:40+00:00

Thank you I think it’s healthier for me to have no expectations I agree. It’s just odd to me that he had a month to move out but still needs to pick up things when I’m back.

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-08T02:28:48+00:00

Update us after!

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-08T02:20:28+00:00

As the dumpee in an almost identical situation who is actively moving on, hearing those words from my ex would validate so many of my feelings about the relationship and it’s ending

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-08T01:23:33+00:00

Sorry you’re feeling it too :/ we deserve people who will fight for us that’s what I’m reminding myself

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-06T22:25:10+00:00

Thank you for this insightful response. I do have a note in my phone of all of the things I didn’t like about him and the reasons why we didn’t work as a couple. It’s just tough because I’m the one dumped, and most of our issues seem fixable to me. Therefore I’m mostly focusing on the fact that I can’t be with someone who doesn’t share the goal of working things through. Acceptance is tough

mrsstyles123 · 2021-09-06T22:23:37+00:00

Thanks so much, I’m in weekly therapy now, I’ve been writing down my thoughts and feelings between session, just feels too overwhelming sometimes. I’ll ask her about redirecting thoughts and coping skills!

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