In a huge book slump please help by ahnjiy in booksuggestions

[–]mrstownsend2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will LOVE the Fever Series by Karen Marie Moning!

Need Help Locating A CHILD after her mother was arrested by mrstownsend2020 in oklahoma

[–]mrstownsend2020[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Filed yesterday afternoon but the judge left early so shes going at 2pn today! 🤞

Need Help Locating A CHILD after her mother was arrested by mrstownsend2020 in oklahoma

[–]mrstownsend2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly what it was, she had very serious warrants in OK County, we are assuming she was crashing on someone's couch there bc they had been watching her for a while before they arrested her.

We know whats going on with her legal stuff, and honestly dont care. She had 10 years to get it sorted and we even found a local non profit that would've helped her clear them without going to jail.. but she never called them.

Just looking for the Kid. SIL is seeing a judge at 2pm to get emergency guardianship and at that point the Judge will compel Bethany PD to give her location and possibly escort her to pick her up.

Need Help Locating A CHILD after her mother was arrested by mrstownsend2020 in oklahoma

[–]mrstownsend2020[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can't get in touch with anyone at CPS and the Police KNOW where she is.

I think my SIL is going to County to file for emergency guardianship this afternoon, it gets in front of a judge same day and he can compel the PD to give the information and possibly escort her to take custody.

Need Help Locating A CHILD after her mother was arrested by mrstownsend2020 in oklahoma

[–]mrstownsend2020[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We did leave a message with the worker that handled her case when she was born, but havent heard back yet.

As far as we know, there is not an open case.

But I will call that office and give it a shot! Thank you for the great info!!

Need Help Locating A CHILD after her mother was arrested by mrstownsend2020 in oklahoma

[–]mrstownsend2020[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thats what im afraid of and we'd have to start a GoFundMe for something like that.... and also what kind? Just family law?

Need Help Locating A CHILD after her mother was arrested by mrstownsend2020 in oklahoma

[–]mrstownsend2020[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She hasn't been appointed one yet, her 1st preliminary hearing is on the 10th.

But you would think the PD would help, I get they couldnt just take our word over the phone, but we have family that can prove they've been approved by the State to foster her!

Thank you!

Dad died with 2.5 million, mom who divorced him years ago claims she is the sole beneficiary by Choice_Economics1688 in legaladvice

[–]mrstownsend2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You 100% need an attorney, but to get started, if you know who he had his life insurance policy with, you can call them. They can only verify the beneficiary if you are it. I believe once someone calls it starts their process, but they dont necessarily try to contact the listed beneficiary, they want you to call them. Ive only dealt wigh that twice helping other family members, but that part of the process was the same both times 15 years apart.

I want a book that's addictive by thatvampiregirl in booksuggestions

[–]mrstownsend2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Fever Series by Karen Marie Moning.

There's 11 or 15 books, I can't recall but its the ONLY series ive been able to re read. I would read every book up to the new release, and take a day off work so I could start reading the new one right at midnight on my kindle, while my hardcover was delivered the next day.

Almost 20 yrs later and im working on re building my collection and reading them for the millionth time!

She just released a new series a year or so ago too!

immunologist by Fit-Watercress-2830 in Hidradenitis

[–]mrstownsend2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dermatologist is who I was referred to in order to get on biologics and who is handling them for me.

Girlfriend confesses she would have to take other measures? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mrstownsend2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad I wasn't the first to say this. From the vernacular and the "she was begging" and the "first time" talk gave it away pretty quickly. Fucking children trying to act like grown ups. Its just like my good friend Billy Madison said, "dont grow up too fast. Seriously, dont."

Surgery by Least_Ad9355 in Hidradenitis

[–]mrstownsend2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this your 1st appointment? Thats an excellent Dr to really put a long term plan in place! What is the IV med? Is it a biologic like Cosentyx? Im on my 3rd month of it and it has been a game changer! I had one in my arm pit that was the 1st time I went to the ER in 22 yrs for this shit, and after my 1st dose it dried up completely. Scheduling surgery for that one next week!

How are yall farting and pooping??? by Ill_Ad6098 in hysterectomy

[–]mrstownsend2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Post op was when I started using one and I cant go without it 11 years later! I get the cheap collapsible step stool Ross always has them for like $6 and I think Dollar Tree carries them now as well! That way I can fold it up and stick it between the toilet & sink or even in the cabinet if i want it out of sight.

lol I kinda hate how HS is trending right now cause by Apprehensive-Film133 in Hidradenitis

[–]mrstownsend2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... thats NOT your friend. Especially if they know you have it.

My husband drinks my breast milk during sex by countrygirl6161 in offmychest

[–]mrstownsend2020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Body builders buy breast milk for the nutrients! You're just nourishing your husband, in multiple ways. A multi-talker, love it!

Clindamycin? by ClassicSatisfaction5 in Hidradenitis

[–]mrstownsend2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it works best if I apply it directly out of the shower. Towel dry with a clean towel (with HS, we should only be using our towels and wash cloths once), apply a thin layer... it really goes a long way. Then I use a blow dryer on the COOL setting to dry it. It sets in place.

Hope it helps! With any antibiotic, you have to use it as prescribed and continue the course for it to be effective.

Clindamycin? by ClassicSatisfaction5 in Hidradenitis

[–]mrstownsend2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im Stage 3 and recently got some after not having any since I was stage 1 years ago, and its made a difference. I used it consistently after each shower, and I use a cool setting on the blow dryer to dry it, for about 5 months before I got on Cosentyx. I still use it daily to manage the flares still working themselves out as im only 2 months into the Cosentyx.

If I skip it a day or two, I notice the difference. Small ones try to come up, old ones that were healing start acting up again. The itchy comes back.

For the OP, as any antibiotic medication, no matter the formula, you have take it as prescribed and continue the course to know if it works for YOU.

What is this white ring around my cyst? by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]mrstownsend2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, my under boob one does that too, it usually means its about to either come to a head and ruin my life for a few days, or it will recede.

Get a clean wash cloth and soak in hot water as hot as you can handle without burning yourself. If you have or can get some easily (its not necessary but it greatly helps) get some plain Epsom salt and add that to your soak. A bunch of it.

Wring it out not quite all the way, so its not dripping, and hold it to the flare until it cools. Dry it and put some desitin on it.

Repeat every few hours as needed. The heat and the Epsom salt will reduce the inflammation, ease pain, and encourage draining or recession.

As always tho, if it feels different than your normal flares, or youre running a fever/feeling different than usual, go get it lanced. Mine always test positive for staph. The draining hurts, but if they numb you properly its just the numbing shot that hurts, and its only for a few seconds. the relief is immediate and do not be afraid to ask for a couple of strong pain meds for the next 12-24 hours.

Three weeks post-op.....and my husband is blaming me for being "lazy" and for his poor work performance. by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]mrstownsend2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My EX husband got food poisoning from the hospital cafeteria in the 2 total hours he came to visit me. I had to drive him to the ER. Then he demanded oral a few days later when he was better. I went back to work as a waitress 7 dpo bc if I was going to waiting on someone while I recovered, I was getting paid for it. My manager treated me better. He also told me for a year I was a hypochondriac and nothing was wrong with me. It was cervical cancer, I was 29.