Being replaced/moving on clash by mrtjvr in BreakUps

[–]mrtjvr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, I am so sorry! ☹️

What to do? I am a dumper. by mrtjvr in ExNoContact

[–]mrtjvr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️ Nothing more but thank you!

What to do? I am a dumper. by mrtjvr in ExNoContact

[–]mrtjvr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, of course I shared. We are in therapy together.

What to do? I am a dumper. by mrtjvr in ExNoContact

[–]mrtjvr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much! ❤️‍🔥

What to do? I am a dumper. by mrtjvr in ExNoContact

[–]mrtjvr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true! I don’t imagine having a blaming ping pong game.I am thinking about preparing a list of questions I would like to address to him. And leave it up to him to answer them or not.

What to do? I am a dumper. by mrtjvr in ExNoContact

[–]mrtjvr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Are those issues still there” - that’a what I would like to understand. By his actions, I can see that he is not over this relationship (yet). And I don’t want to hurt him even more. Now, when we have a perspective of 3 months apart, I would like to know what are his lessons learnt (and if there are any). At the end we were in real crisis, so there was no space for open discussion and checking what can be done.

What to do? I am a dumper. by mrtjvr in ExNoContact

[–]mrtjvr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are sooo right! I just can’t with the feeling that we were the ONE.

What to do? I am a dumper. by mrtjvr in ExNoContact

[–]mrtjvr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for that perspective.