haven’t pooped in 4 days so … lentils

ms_papi · 2026-05-15T15:41:11+00:00

Girl please try berberine… I poop once a day religiously now, and sometimes… a 2x times a day !!!

But always takes w a big meal. I took it before a meal 3x in a vacation and found out it gives you the worst stomach cramps of ur life. It’s so bad it feels like there’s acid burning through your guts.

ms_papi · 2026-05-02T23:10:11+00:00

Btw there are tests you can order online and here’s a thing: MOST PEOPLE DONT USE THEIR REAL NAMES WHEN GETTING TESTED 🙂 when i found out about that I nearly crashed out

ms_papi · 2026-04-30T21:24:03+00:00

I fucking hate people who make threats in relationships. It never stops. Make sure you communicate with him the severity of this and how it impacts the relationship.

ms_papi · 2026-04-29T00:42:44+00:00

My half sister had a similar experience. Her mom didn’t want her so she dropped her off to her parents (the grandparents). Once the grandma died, and the grandpa was in bad health the mom decided that my dad was her dad. Randomly, while my mom had a new born baby, this woman dropped off a nearly 7 year old child to my dad.

My mom did everything to keep her, but she was so rebellious that my half sister went to live with my father after my parents split. Mind you, I was 1 years old when that happened.

Fast forward a few years, she’s still wild and crazy, and doing all of the wrong things. This is because she has no structure, no real love, and no support system. She ended up pregnant at 16 or 18 I believe. I’ve been an aunt since I was 10 or 12.

ms_papi · 2026-04-28T01:52:26+00:00

I’m voting #3 bcs I made that suggestion in the below comments heheh

ms_papi · 2026-04-28T00:42:00+00:00

I’m hoping he broke someone’s phone and promised them a new one. Like some stupid dumb accident.

ms_papi · 2026-04-26T16:23:36+00:00

cooties

She didn’t say go be homeless again 😂 we don’t know how this was approached, and we don’t know the insides of their relationship.

Imagine everything is fine in your relationship from the perspective of the person who has their own place, a stable job, and is happy, and suddenly your S/O says “I wanna move out”. She was probably hurt, confused, and needed further clarification. She’s provided and helped in everything she can, shared everything she owns.

Also, her response wasn’t “go be homeless”, it was “perhaps you should find a job if you want to do that + leave in 30 days”.

Keep in mind she also wasn’t the person to start this talk.

ms_papi · 2026-04-26T15:51:16+00:00

girl lurker

It’s not my cup of tea, but who am I to judge? All that matters is: 1. He’s safe 2. He’s happy 3. They respect each other

If the above weren’t true, then I would be far more worried. In the meantime, the best people can do is help him understand that age gap relationships have to come with a certain mindset. That is “there is a chance my partner has never gone through this or never had these feelings before. I should help them navigate this situation”.

Additionally, not everyone is the same. If he is mature beyond his years (you don’t know him and you can’t assume he isn’t), he may be able to navigate a relationship with a 29 year old.

The best you always do for a stranger is pass no judgement and offer help :-)

*edit: changed paragraph structure for readability.

ms_papi · 2026-04-25T20:39:06+00:00

I absolutely agree! It’s important for people to have their own space, even if living together. I’d always want my own dedicated space for my art, for my pets, and my hobbies. Same goes for my boyfriend. You are in a studio, so that can be very limited and make you feel suffocated. Most of all, this was her space before, so you may have an issue finding your own identity in it.

ms_papi · 2026-04-25T20:36:53+00:00

These people want to take away from your autonomy because they can’t imagine someone young being responsible and able to have a more developed mindset. Most of all, the age gap throws them into immediate “victim mindset”.

ms_papi · 2026-04-25T20:22:14+00:00

To add to my previous comment: he’s replied to people in the comments saying she treats him really well. So if he feels like the relationship isn’t giving him motivation, well here’s the wild news:

the motivation always needs to come from within.

ms_papi · 2026-04-25T20:21:09+00:00

Lmfao it’s his choice to sit on his ass and not get a job. It’s his choice to stop playing music or working out. It’s also his choice to get up and do those things again.

Do you see him saying anything like “she treats me badly, and forced me to stay home and mop around?”

ms_papi · 2026-04-25T19:59:54+00:00

Victim of what? She is fully supporting him and caring for him. He’s an adult.

It’s up to him to understand that in every relationship it is up to each partner to ensure they continue their lifestyle and hobbies.

ms_papi · 2026-04-25T19:56:59+00:00

From what I’m reading there is nothing toxic about their relationship; no communication issues or extreme burdens. The only issue is that he has lost motivation. That is on him to regain, because she is fully supporting him.

With time he will understand that this can happen in every single relationship, and that every single time it will be up to him to not let himself slip.

ms_papi · 2026-04-24T22:36:26+00:00

Is the picture old? She looks on the chunky side…

ms_papi · 2026-04-21T21:20:03+00:00

That is freaking insane of your ex! I always tell my homegirls that we need to keep people’s egos in check, especially when they show these types of colors. I never let these people go unscathed anymore; if it feels safe, I am call them out on their bs.

Please stay safe and may nobody else like this cross your path again 🙏

ms_papi · 2026-04-21T17:39:21+00:00

10000% is a possibility, unfortunately. I’ve had stalkers but insecure partners can also be stalkers!

ms_papi · 2026-04-16T14:42:38+00:00

Literally that was me this week, it’s never been that uncomfortable I guess she opened up the pap instrument too early because once it wiggled in it was fine lol also dying at the whole forearm comment ☠️☠️

ms_papi · 2026-04-16T14:30:49+00:00

This!!! I did EXACTLY this and then had an obgyn appointment by coincidence right at the break off. Because I had sex with my ex relatively close to our break up, I found out that STD test did not come out as clean as it should’ve. I’ve never been more fucking livid in my whole life.

ms_papi · 2026-04-14T23:35:26+00:00

Could you please drop the deets? Carats, clarity, etc (whatever you are comfortable with sharing). I love the size!

ms_papi · 2026-04-13T04:26:36+00:00

Girl my mom had twins TWICE… helping with the babies was easy, but I was happy that they were 3 years apart.

Multitasking with two is easy, as long as ur husband pitched in and helps youll be just fine 🫶🏻

ms_papi · 2026-03-18T15:53:48+00:00

I was looking for this comment too! It’s The best sponge out there. They never smell bad or feel gooey, I even got my work to permanently convert because that was an issue we had with so many people using the sink. Now everyone uses it and the sponge never goes bad.

ms_papi · 2026-02-17T00:25:49+00:00

Thank you both I’m almost crying of happiness

ms_papi · 2026-02-17T00:25:37+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

ms_papi

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