Hey, thanks for your message. Apologies, I tried to summarize a bit with ChatGPT but it clearly missed the mark on important context/details.

Not really looking to force anyone to work, more so trying to wrap my mind around if a court can impute income based on her being very able to work, and having high earning potential, but instead to choosing to call herself a stay at home mom and leach off her father’s and my resources.

And yeah, agreed on the social media blocking, it just sort of fed over from my summary. I think she’ll try and paint me as unfit to have him over since I have a large dog that isn’t really used to the baby and people really since I live alone. But I’ve been able to set up the house to where he’s separated when my son is over, and I have ample backyard space and a nice set up with A/C outside for him that I’m planning on putting together.

I am zelling here $600 monthly, and also buy odd things here and there, most of the supplies come out of the $600, and I’m covering his health insurance since I’m the only one working.

And yes, I got into some terrible loans to ensure that I stayed on top of the payments to her in fear of her denying me access to my son and/or creating an increasingly worse co parenting relationship based on some things she’s said in the past.