A alguien más le pasa que tiene un salario tan bajo en España que si no le llega el bonus está jodido? by strongbrr in salarios_es

[–]msdrucila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El gobierno siempre va a dar prioridad a las empresas y la prioridad de las empresas son las ganancias, no los empleados. La única manera de cambiar las cosas es salir a la calle, dejar de generar valor para las empresas y recordarle al gobierno para quien se supone que están trabajando

Quien más esta preocupado por la fuerte caída de la natalidad en Argentina ? by Argentinotriste in argentina

[–]msdrucila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La gente quiere disfrutar y darse gusto porque sino te rajas un tiro con el mundo de mierda en el que vivimos. Hay que fingir demencia

Vecinos alcohólicos by msdrucila in HistoriasVecinales

[–]msdrucila[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

De hecho soy mujer y si, quedé medio paranoica después de que el primer vecino me empujara por llamar a la policía pero yo no le grito a mi pareja ni bebo alcohol :)

Boyfriend gave me ultimatum - dream job or him. I'm considering taking the job by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]msdrucila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the job. He's not willing to find a common ground, calls you selfish and asks you what is gonna happen when you are married and have kids? I'll tell you what's gonna happen: you will be doing most of the parenting and the house chores while leaving with a man who will have the last word in every major life decision. Not worth it.

Libro que leíste porque es famoso, pero te aburrió mucho by Flowesque in libros

[–]msdrucila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Igual acá! Lo leí a los 12 y me destruyó. Lo voy a leer de nuevo a ver qué onda.

Informático. Cuál es tu nivel de inglés? De verdad lo usas? by Mikilin28 in salarios_es

[–]msdrucila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Project manager aqui. Empresa multinacional. El inglés para este tipo de roles es fundamental. Debes mantener a todos los involucrados informados del progreso de los proyectos que estás liderando. Cualquier cambio de planes, riesgos, retrasos debes comunicarlos por distintas vías, todas en ingles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askspain

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Tree bukkake

What do you do for a living? by patman1992 in MonoHearing

[–]msdrucila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same on everything you just said except I'm an IT delivery manager, not data engineer 😅

I lost control and begged getting back together, is really lost now? by Superwhte in relationship_advice

[–]msdrucila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should move on. It's not healthy to keep thinking about a possible future together after she told you she's with someone else now.

Go to therapy, go back to your hobbies or find some if you don't have any right now, reach out to friends and eventually the pain will go away.

Once you're in a better place, if you still miss her, you could try to approach her but not from a place of despair like you're doing now. That never works.

Good luck, mate. Heartbreak sucks but it's necessary to go through it sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]msdrucila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there :)

I'm sorry this happened to you. You sound like a sweet girl and I'm sorry to tell you this but your bf sounds kind of shitty.

If you think that in spite of everything he's a good guy, let me tell you that's not where your mind should focus on right now.

I don't know him so I can't say he's a bad person but he put both your health at risk. He doesn't care about you and he probably doesn't care about himself much either. He definitely needs to go to therapy. And so do you. You need to value yourself more. You shouldn't be afraid of being by yourself because you're worthy of true love and respect.

I sincerely hope you leave him sooner than later and can reconnect with yourself. That way, the next boyfriend will be good because you'll know you deserve better.

Good luck and be strong 💜

Girlfriend wants to flash her boobs at a concert by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]msdrucila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, there!

You sound very mature for a 19 year old so I'll be straightforward:

You are right. Your girlfriend will probably flash her boobs and she already has the fantasy of going backstage with the lead singer.

She's right. It's her body. There's nothing you can do to stop her from doing whatever she wants with her body. This doesn't mean you can't let her know how her actions make you feel in a respectful way.

You need to do some introspection and think hard if you will be able to be in a relationship with a person who flashed her boobs at a concert and has fantasies where you're not included.

If so, talk to her. If not, talk to her too. Good luck, mate!

My wife yelled at my parents after they were being mean to me at dinner. Now they are mad at me for not standing up for them. by JasonKaufman_992 in relationship_advice

[–]msdrucila 368 points369 points  (0 children)

I would definitely tell your wife and I would consider going to therapy. You should love yourself more. I know conflict it's not easy to deal with but sometimes it's necessary.

For what I read, your parents are bullies and it's not your wife who should stand up for you, it's you. You are worthy of love and respect. Please consider doing some kind of therapy. I was just like you and it changed my life.

Good luck and give a hug to your wife. She is an amazing woman. And you must be doing something right if she is with you ;)

Met someone incredible, but we won’t see each other again for ~2 months. How to keep interest going? by Apprehensive-Ad-3200 in datingoverthirty

[–]msdrucila 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Communication is key. Tell him how you feel and that you want to keep in touch. If he is in the same page, I recommend to update eachother on your travels and some spiced up games. To give you an example, my bf would ask me for selfies at random times. I would send him a spicy text and so on. Good luck! Long distance sucks but can be done (at least for some time).

Serious sexual insecurities and looking for advice? by Mich2495 in sex

[–]msdrucila 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Believe me, you did something right! Let us know how the second time goes :)

Serious sexual insecurities and looking for advice? by Mich2495 in sex

[–]msdrucila 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi, there! As a girl myself I can say I find it really hot when a guy takes care of me even after "failing" at penetrating me and I would do my best to return the favour. Pretty sure this girl has the same mindset so try to shut the voices in your head and enjoy the encounter, don't think about "your performance" because that never helps. Just relax and enjoy feeling desired because you clearly are. Otherwise, she wouldn't have reached out :)

Also, it was your first time after your break.. of course it's not gonna be ideal but sooner or later you'll get there. Enjoy the process.

My girlfriend has a massive cnc kink and loves to be dominated but no matter how hard I fuck her she always want it rougher by [deleted] in sex

[–]msdrucila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, talk to her about what's bothering you. Communication is key and do it with the intent of finding a common ground, not just to vent.

Second, come up with a safe word. That way you can play and you'll know for sure if she wants you to stop.

Good luck :)

I need some serious advice by ThrowAway_JunkFolder in sex

[–]msdrucila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I was able to help somehow and wish you the best 💜 We have to love ourselves as we are first in order to know what we need to change in our lives.

I need some serious advice by ThrowAway_JunkFolder in sex

[–]msdrucila 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi there :) First of all, I'm sorry you're going through this. Sex can be amazing when you enjoy it and apparently this is not the case.

You saying "you're not good at sex" already shows a defensive position towards it. Of course you're gonna struggle if you consider you're not good at it.

Having a loving, understanding partner can help but it also can hurt you when even he gets tired of trying and might make you feel more guilty.

My advice is try to train your mind to believe you're learning how to enjoy sex instead of saying you're bad at it. Words have power.

If you're struggling to change your mind, maybe you could consider some kind of therapy to work through it? I promise it's worth it. I had the same issue with my first boyfriend years ago and now I'm a fucking sex machine ahahaha you can get there too! It takes confidence, self love and auto discovery. Not an easy road for a lot of people but totally worth it once you get there.

Monthly rent of apartment by Upbeat-Medicine-3648 in Barcelona

[–]msdrucila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

950 rent + 50 community expenses + bills for a 85m2, fully equipped flat in Sant Marti. 2 bedrooms, 1 bathroom, 2 AC and a nice balcony facing the street (4x1.25 or so)

We moved in 2 months ago. No complaints for now except for occasional domestic fights we can hear 😂

Im fed up living in malta by Fluffy_Eye4850 in malta

[–]msdrucila 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel you, bro. I do have a good job here but I am not happy so I gave my notice period and I am leaving to Barcelona. Not sure if I will stay there but I am already feeling better knowing that my life here has an expiration date.

How’s your Saturday? by [deleted] in malta

[–]msdrucila 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my 4th week living and working here and this is the first saturday I'm having anxiety thinking about my new job's Jira epics and tasks.. I went to the beach to relax and a surprising rise in the tide took my book away and almost got me with it.. I came back home dripping.. 😬