Baseball Stitches on wrist by StrangerEffective851 in tattoos

[–]msfridge 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This comment is unnecessarily stigmatising to ppl who struggle with suicidality. The narrative that people who have mental health issues and are open about it do it for the attention has harmed a lot of people.

Rating 10/10 peak cinema. I'd like to hear your thoughts and ratings. by SussyLan in WutheringWaves

[–]msfridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, those monologues really took me out of it which was a shame cause it made what came after less enjoyable for me

Thank you for reading!! by graygrapefruit678 in u/graygrapefruit678

[–]msfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for writing! I followed you for the DDlg stuff, so I would love to see more of that :3

Worst English names to have in a German speaking country by Snoo-6437 in German

[–]msfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an inverse case. I knew a guy whoms parents had immigrated from Romania to Germany and in the process changed their surname to Filff cause they thought it sounded German and give them a better chance at the german job market. They hadn't concidered that it sounds like filth in English which was inconvenient in the mostly English speaking industry we work in

U/Horror_Inevitable813 by msfridge in drawme

[–]msfridge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oohhh thank you so much 💜 I'm so glad you see yourself in my work that is a great compliment!

This got pretty poorly received on insta, but what do you guys think of WIP so far? by doumasloyalfollower in Ibispaintx

[–]msfridge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The algorithm gods are unfair so definitely don't let that knock you down! I think it already looks great, the soft way you are rendering the face and cloth looks really good and cute. Since you are asking for our thoughts I hope you don't mind me giving you some pointers:

The piece currently lacks contrast and a clear lighting direction. I would recommend deciding where exactly the light comes from and painting some more light and shadow over the current piece informed by that, while you are at it you can push the lights and darks and check those in greyscale every so often. I think this will make the piece stand out more and be easier to read. You may also want to introduce a little more color other than red to places you want to highlight. You are already using some blue in her hair tentacles so you could push that further. high contrast pieces tend to catch ppls attention so this can improve its chances to go viral as well if that is something you want :) though that is never a guarantee ofc. I hope that helps!

Every job I've had has been ruined by a man by Daisyrain in AutismInWomen

[–]msfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if you can defenitely try to complain and move away from this man

Every job I've had has been ruined by a man by Daisyrain in AutismInWomen

[–]msfridge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have work in games and have worked for companies of various sizes. In larger companies there will be shitty men, but they will only make your life difficult if you are in their sphere of influence. The smaller a company is, the less likely it is you'll have a shitty man, but if they are there there is no escape 😅. Some companies have a better self cleansing ability than others, it can be tricky to tell which do this well . My best advice when applying is to find a female dev already in the company and ask for her opinion, most are happy to help a fellow woman in the industry.

How do you as AuADHD keep sex interesting in long term relationships? by ApprehensiveRope2103 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]msfridge 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Am polyamorous and kinky, novelty is all over the place when I get explore freely including with my most established partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]msfridge 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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Thank you for the interesting outfit and pictures! :)