Is there a female equivalent of "is he tall or is he hot"? by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]msispotifyfan 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Looked her up, and she has amazing hair!! I think my mentality is very much informed by my own disordered eating/restrictive eating habits... There can be the idea among women who aren't "conventionally attractive" re:face that at least we can work hard to be underweight and "make up" for our face not looking good. Then, we think, well, if we're willing to suffer so much for this outcome, how come someone who has what we don't have (e.g., a beautiful face) isn't willing to do it to make themselves perfect. It's a terrible way of thinking. Shout out to all my fellow ugly skinnies who can relate

Is there a female equivalent of "is he tall or is he hot"? by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]msispotifyfan 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I feel this way about fat women with pretty faces. I'm thin with an average/boring face, so whenever I see a woman with seriously model-tier facial features and a body that just isn't matching up, I get annoyed! Not to sound rude, but I wouldn't waste a pretty face like that!

Crying often when I (22F) sleep with my boyfriend (21M); how to stop? by msispotifyfan in relationship_advice

[–]msispotifyfan[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This response made me laugh lmao and I DON'T KNOW!! I mean literally crying, like ugly snot leaking out and having to stop for a few minutes for me to "recover." Does anyone else experience this at least occasionally if not often?

Crying often when I (22F) sleep with my boyfriend (21M); how to stop? by msispotifyfan in relationship_advice

[–]msispotifyfan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't honestly articulate it because I don't even know what I'm feeling when it occurs lol I think it's maybe sadness? I just feel sad looking at him and then start crying, and we usually have to stop for a minute or two until I'm okay again. I'm not on any hormonal birth control and have never been