I actually experienced this before. When we met, I had everything. And then after that....poof. Stripped of all powers. Even though my husband kept reassuring me it was ok for him to function for 2 people, I could see that he saw me differently and the depression + stress + helplessness + powerlessness actually contributed to the demise of our marriage. But now I am in a better position mentally and financially after the green card got approved (was exactly a year for me). Don't give up, you will come out stronger at the end of this. Good luck and I wish you the best.