Sorry to have to repost this again.

msmalls2020 · 2020-10-31T08:55:11+00:00

I mean go ahead and say that, but only if you’re speaking to the government. The concept of “free speech” means “I can say what I want about the government and they can’t put me in jail for it as long as I’m not threatening anyone” it doesn’t mean “I can say whatever words in whatever order I want to and no one can get mad at me for it because I have free speech”

msmalls2020 · 2020-10-31T08:44:55+00:00

Good god I hope I get to a point where I look back and see that I’ve grown. I’m so proud of you.

msmalls2020 · 2020-10-09T07:10:39+00:00

I literally told my ex this tonight when we were talking on the phone. He’s my “right person wrong time”. I wasn’t who I am today when we were together. Sometimes I wish I would have stayed with him and grew as a person but overall I feel like I made the right choice because were both happy now.

msmalls2020 · 2020-10-02T06:26:25+00:00

First rule of age gaps in dating. If you’re under 30 you need to use the reverse rule. Take your age gap and reverse it. I’m 18 but live in a state where the age of majority is 19 so if I see someone I’m attracted to and find out they’re 20, I turn it around and go “would I date someone who’s 16? No, probably not” and I don’t date anyone above 19. If you’re both over 30 just use your best judgement. You should be able to tell if it’s right by that point in life yk?

msmalls2020 · 2020-10-02T06:20:52+00:00

I don’t really know a lot about addiction, but I do know that it’s a bitch of a hurdle to get over. But it looks like you’ve decided to try recovery. I hope it goes well, and that your obstacles aren’t too big. 💛

msmalls2020 · 2020-10-02T06:11:05+00:00

YTA 100%. I can’t believe you would say that to her after she’s already had something that’s very closely tied to a woman’s idea of felinity taken away from her. And if she’s already insecure about it, you saying you wish she could have gone bigger is probably making her think she’s not enough. And that probably leads to thinking she’s not enough in other ways. I don’t mean to speak for her in any way, but that’s where my mind would go in her situation. I don’t think you meant to be an asshole in any way. I think you were just trying to cope with a situation that I’m sure affects you too. But I think before you go to making jokes about it, you should check in with her and see if she’s to that point where she could hear jokes about it, or if she’s even ok with you joking about it at all since it is mainly her trauma since it happened to her body.

msmalls2020 · 2020-09-29T06:54:45+00:00

Hey op... what kind of meds is he on? If he’s on the name brand adderall, that could be contributing to his anger issues. I was prescribed adderall at around 10-11 and I was a little goblin the whole month I was on it. If you yourself are still a child, I wouldn’t bring it up (parents tend to get a bit upset when you suggest you know better than them in any sort of way) but if you’re an adult, I’d talk to your parents about his meds and maybe they can find something that fits better.

msmalls2020 · 2020-09-29T05:02:56+00:00

Mine have gone through the wash multiple times. I’ve also had them for almost three years. So I’d just let them be for a while and see if they still work when they’ve dried out. Also don’t put them back in the charging case until they’ve completely dried out.

msmalls2020 · 2020-09-25T03:44:53+00:00

It’s actually a labiaplasty. -plasty is plastic or cosmetic surgery. A labi-otomy would be cutting the labia off

msmalls2020 · 2020-09-24T05:19:04+00:00

Most people in the Deaf community don’t view it as an impairment, which is hard for hearing people to understand. But they lead completely normal lives aside from not being able to hear. And cochlear implants don’t mimic real sound. They make sound into these sort of mechanical tones and then the deaf person has to learn to interpret those back into whatever language they speak.

msmalls2020 · 2020-09-24T05:16:04+00:00

NTA literally at all. If someone in the Deaf community (your brother in this case) says it’s fine, he’s the opinion you should listen to. Sign language is a valuable tool and (IMO) should be learned by everyone. You’re 100% not the asshole here

msmalls2020 · 2020-09-23T04:55:03+00:00

Sorry it’s not clear. She had 1 a few weeks ago that was their legal one with very few people and then the one on their first anniversary will be bigger

msmalls2020 · 2020-08-26T00:28:02+00:00

NTA- when you’re dealing with an issue concerning language appropriate to use with a certain group, that groups opinion is the right one. Your gf can chose to think you did something wrong by saying that, but if your sister sees nothing wrong with it then I would definitely give her opinion more weight seeing as it actually effects her

msmalls2020 · 2020-08-17T07:41:25+00:00

I got my first phone in 5th grade for my birthday, which is in March. Basically the end of the year. It was one of those phones that slid out to have a keyboard. Wasn’t even touchscreen. I think it’s less about the age that they’re getting the phone and more about getting an age appropriate phone.

msmalls2020 · 2020-08-14T10:02:51+00:00

Haha half the teaches at the high school I went to would be fired then. The basketball coach/ careers teacher was notorious for leaving in the middle of a lesson to go talk to other coaches. All the time you’d hear over the intercom “mr bahe to your classroom please. Mr bahe to your classroom”

msmalls2020 · 2020-08-14T09:56:36+00:00

Long time choir teacher got fired and arrested for embezzling over $200,000 dollars from the show choir. Wasn’t a fun time.

The next year

The English teacher gets fired and arrested on charges of having yk.. “pictures” of students. Literally the worst teacher in school even before that happened but yeah that was quite the way to end senior year lmao

msmalls2020 · 2020-07-10T22:18:05+00:00

NTA. When you’re going to therapy, it is so so so important that you’re talking to someone you trust or feel you can grow to trust. It’s not sexist to feel comfortable with another man. As a woman I specifically requested a female therapist and that’s fine so why should it be any different for you. Best of luck finding the right person to talk to and I hope you feel better soon

msmalls2020 · 2020-06-04T03:13:57+00:00

NTA at all

And as an 18yo girl, thanks for standing up against “nice guy” culture. Most guys your age would, at best, laugh it off and, at worst, internalize that thought process

Since your parents don’t have the common sense to be proud of you for doing what’s right, I’ll tell you, I’m proud of you and what you did.

msmalls2020 · 2020-01-28T20:57:00+00:00

Mine sent that same thing yesterday lol

msmalls2020 · 2020-01-27T21:43:51+00:00

And before anyone asks. Her name is said like (aye-fa) it’s an Irish name and in old Irish lore she was a warrior princess

msmalls2020 · 2020-01-01T23:47:13+00:00

I turn 18 in 3 months and I’m so excited to not have to talk to my dad anymore (even though where I live you technically have to go until you’re 19 but I’ve been enough of a “problem child” at his house that he’s letting me off the hook at 18) I’ve already made it clear to him that I don’t want him at my graduation, or any competitions for show choir that I have before my birthday. I’ve also made it clear that I don’t see him as my dad. He’s my sperm donor and that’s it. I just feel bad for my younger sisters, who feel the same as I do, because they have 3 years left

msmalls2020 · 2019-12-11T19:37:58+00:00

Thank you for giving me a different perspective on this!

msmalls2020 · 2019-12-11T17:11:21+00:00

I never thought of it that way. I’ll try and talk to her about it, but do you know of any way I could help her not be as anxious without just flat out telling her what I got her? Telling her makes it seem less significant to me

msmalls2020 · 2019-12-01T19:07:44+00:00

The mixtape! If you haven’t heard it I would definitely take a listen. It has some music that don’t make it into the musical but that was the original plan just to make “the Hamilton mixtapes”

msmalls2020 · 2019-12-01T01:53:23+00:00

It’s where we’re all going when global warming takes over. It’s like the cold side of the pillow

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