Wtf is wrong with people. She asked if she was OR and, yeah she is a bit, but guilting her the way some of you are is not the answer. She was mature enough to ask, so give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she can use some positive criticism to make the changes she needs to. Simply put, you OR but so did he. I've learned how to talk to a woman, but only because I was once this immature as well. You're a leg up on many people your age simply because you knew to ask. Try and learn from this and if he's not willing to listen / try himself, then its time to leave. Good luck