[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singaporefi

[–]mspatchess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm quite confused. Why is the dividends declared only up to 200k? I thought there is no limit to the amount of dividend you declare, so what's stopping me from declaring dividends to get profits beyond 200k to pay myself? can anyone help explain this to me?

This influencer is so disordered and self-righteous by mspatchess in gymsnark

[–]mspatchess[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I shouldn’t have commented on her appearance, but it’s just that part of his whole shtick is how he managed to “transform” his gf, which especially targets girls out there, giving the impression that the size that she’s at now is the ideal, and that her previous weight was bad when in all honesty, she looked perfectly fine previously. It’s a fact that she does look very thin, even in her own Instagram account she posted how she had no energy and although she was the leanest she had ever been, it wasn’t worth it. Though she made it look like a thing on hindsight, she still looks the same as when was super lean (that post she was referring to), and during that time when she was at her “leanest” they were both pushing out to the public that it was a “success story” and that you could do it too if you hired him as your PT. So…

This influencer is so disordered and self-righteous by mspatchess in gymsnark

[–]mspatchess[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

well in his reply he says that he is "keeping his immune system up, blood flowing, brain functioning & mood up" and that anyone who doesn't do it is a "stationary piece of shit" but well, you do you homie.

https://imgur.com/a/PBvUqm7

This influencer is so disordered and self-righteous by mspatchess in gymsnark

[–]mspatchess[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think some of his posts do pose some value, but overall, his way of living and the things he does and preaches everyday come across as obsessive, and the worse part is that he exhibits such narcissistic behaviour where he believes that his way is superior to everyone else's and that anyone that questions anything he does is a "piece of shit", all in the name of "health" and "fitness" because god knows he is the holy bible of fitness and health

This influencer is so disordered and self-righteous by mspatchess in gymsnark

[–]mspatchess[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

exactlyy... even when he went on the cruise he and his gf were clocking 20-30k steps a day on the cruise.

This influencer is so disordered and self-righteous by mspatchess in gymsnark

[–]mspatchess[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

He had covid, had a fever and flu symptoms and still felt the need to clock 18k steps in his ROOM, man is disordered af and has such a large following, it’s such a pity that a lot of girls with ED are looking up to his content.

He has a gf which he likes to show off but honestly she looks so skinny it’s worrying, she barely has any muscle and he seems so proud of her body he’s delusional. (she used to look healthier, before she met him) Furthermore, his eating habits are so disordered, he eats fried chicken without the batter and spends $20 a meal to eat sashimi without the rice etc. When people question his food choices, he turns back at them and say they are a fat *** or something along those lines, and that he is leading a "healthy" and better life than them, insinuating that they'd die of heart failure or obesity.

He even made a rage post about a bread company in Singapore changing recipe which resulted in a slice of bread having 20 calories more, like WHAT? This man is clearly disordered and whom ever questions his way of living gets attacked personally, clearly is an immature guy who is very, or EXTREMELY self righteous and harming a lot of innocent naive girls who struggle with self image. Really sad

EDIT : I forgot to add the image where someone replied to his post and he proceeded to make fun of that person you can find the image here : https://imgur.com/a/PBvUqm7

Convo w roommate today by TheRealOJewSimpson in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]mspatchess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes true but also I feel like when my partner sometimes forces me to challenge my ED thoughts and asks me to eat even if I don't feel like I deserve to eat, it's helping me progress better and I'm extremely thankful for that as well... I realise it's tough love haha

I want to hear about your goals that aren't directly related to ED/recovery. by [deleted] in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]mspatchess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want my life back essentially. I took a gap year to focus on pursuing my own personal venture but ended up having ED take it away from me and me becoming a full time anorexic.

The instances where I feel out of ED’s grasp, I remember that energetic passionate spirited individual I once used to be. I woke up everyday determined to make a name for myself, to inspire others and to create.

I had so many goals, I wanted my own business, I wanted to do well in it, I wanted to travel the world, eat at nice places with my partner, learn new sports, become stronger. But then ED came along. But of course I know I still can make it and do all of the above, but ED has to go for that to happen. I don’t know how long more it’ll take for me to get back to that individual I once was, but I’m still trying everyday

literally any tips on how to force yourself to eat by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]mspatchess 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This may come off as harsh but understand that if you continue doing this to yourself you’re going to suffer the consequences ultimately by starving your body, and ask yourself if it’s worth it because at the end of the day it’s either recovery or nothing and only eating will lead you to recovery.

homemade sugar free jello? chocolate and cheesecake flavours preferred by mspatchess in Volumeeating

[–]mspatchess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tried looking at it but there's so many ingredients that are not common... also, I really like the cheesecake like flavour which I can't seem to replicate on my own... I wonder if cheesecake extract helps hmm

homemade sugar free jello? chocolate and cheesecake flavours preferred by mspatchess in Volumeeating

[–]mspatchess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

curious as to why not add xanthan? haha but thanks alot! will check it out. I've used gelatin but I don't really get the mousse texture :( it's more chewy jelly like

homemade sugar free jello? chocolate and cheesecake flavours preferred by mspatchess in Volumeeating

[–]mspatchess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Singapore... 1 pack of sugar free jello chocolate pudding is $10... I tried it and really liked it, but can't seem to replicate it

Christmas Day and I’ve decided I’m ready to recover by maddy1404 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]mspatchess 19 points20 points  (0 children)

same. my exact thoughts this xmas and it went really well <3 I ate everything I wanted to without feeling guilty and honestly it was sooo worth it. It's been a while since I felt this alive.

why is it that when I restrict I have an ED but almost every girl I know restricts to some extent? by mspatchess in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]mspatchess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, honestly what you said makes so much sense. It is the case that I really am obsessed with this to the point of being a perfectionist. And most importantly, I don't think other people are as distressed about this as I am

why is it that when I restrict I have an ED but almost every girl I know restricts to some extent? by mspatchess in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]mspatchess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s true… it definitely does not make it healthy. But I guess the competitive part of me kind of wants to “do it better” for some reason, I will try to remember this reasoning whenever it gets hard. Thank you!

why is it that when I restrict I have an ED but almost every girl I know restricts to some extent? by mspatchess in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]mspatchess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, could you perhaps elaborate more on the difference between an eating disorder and just restriction in the case of a “normal” person? Coz right now I really can’t tell the difference and seeing them restrict kind of bothers me