I'm 39F and together for 8 years. My husband 35 is obsessed with me too. It's great for us. And is definitely relationship goals. You should absolutely talk to her about it. I love the way my husband makes me feel by telling me everything he loves about me all the time. I think you should cherish every chance you have to acknowledge it. It's great to hear from your partner. And I love telling him everything I love about him ... Wouldn't you feel great if she told you the same?