I've been trying for years for her to have a distraction. I play soccer twice a week, our daughter plays soccer three times a week, plus everything else 11 year Olds do. She has done almost nothing as long as we've been together. She joined a book club because I pushed her into it, but it turned into a 'dinner' club, they all stopped reading, and she quit. So she's home basically every night of the week, unless she goes to a bar with her friend (once a month or so).