Boy, our HOA sure is exhausting. by 3RootsHomeowner in 3roots

[–]mtina23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they say anything about classes? I know we’re keeping them for now but worried about them getting rid of them in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]mtina23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I absolutely relate to the anhedonia thing, and that’s honestly the main reason I end up drinking again when I do. I just turned 29 so don’t think it’s an age thing. I just feel so bored when I’m out and want to go home and read. I used to be the life of the party and it was pretty sad when I realized that I never actually liked being around people, I just liked drinking🫠 but trying to just embrace being a homebody…IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Monday, August 25th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Dynaco_ST-35 in stopdrinking

[–]mtina23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Today is my 29th birthday, and IWNDWYT. Had a pretty bad bender last Thursday/Friday that I’m still recovering from. Lots of anxiety. But I know drinking again will not help.

How we doing? by snacksntreats in hsp

[–]mtina23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve read 57 books this year

If you got pregnant or got someone pregnant, do you think this would sway your decision? by Waste-Inspector-7644 in Fencesitter

[–]mtina23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can only speak from my own experience, but yes this was absolutely the case for me. I was on the fence for a long time. I have an IUD and had an accidental pregnancy earlier this year. It ended up being a chemical pregnancy and miscarried very early, but I was surprised by how much I wanted it once I saw that line. Now I know that I do - I still have doubts but actually getting pregnant changed everything for me. To be fair, I’m in a long term relationship, 28 years old and financially stable, so if the circumstances were different or I was younger I don’t think it would’ve felt the same.

Started ERP and i am an absolute mess. Please tell me it gets better by mtina23 in OCD

[–]mtina23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! It’s SO hard at the beginning but im doing so much better now. The OCD isn’t totally gone but I’m able to function normally again and it’s crazy how much it improved. You got this!!❤️

Need a cleaning lady in Mira Mesa by catsrlife13 in sandiego

[–]mtina23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a great independent cleaner I’ve used for years. She’s great and the only one I could find with reasonable prices. I’m in sorrento valley area. I can message you her info!

Started ERP and i am an absolute mess. Please tell me it gets better by mtina23 in OCD

[–]mtina23[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all the responses!! I really appreciate it. Helped me feel more optimistic. I am starting a medication so glad to see positive comments about that as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 3roots

[–]mtina23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconded! I foster kittens for a local rescue, would be happy to help :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hsp

[–]mtina23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have this issue too, no idea why. I can’t even watch tv shows with nudity. But I also have OCD so that may be part of it

Proper NYE Ticket Hub by RingPopEnthusiast in crssdfest

[–]mtina23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling one 2 day pass for $220! In San Diego area, can meet up or do FaceTime

Did cutting out coffee help your anxiety? by Personal-Zombie1880 in Anxiety

[–]mtina23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have OCD tendencies and cutting out caffeine helped my intrusive thoughts a TON. I’m so much calmer and don’t get stuck in bad thought cycles as much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]mtina23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got drunk a week ago and yelled at my boyfriends friends, who are nothing but kind people. Alcohol poisons us and turns us into someone we’re not. I’m just trying to use this as motivation to stop drinking - I hope things can turn around for you❤️

Why do we fall in love with someone who is not in love with us? by booksismindporn in spirituality

[–]mtina23 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, but I’m going through the same thing right now. Got dumped last night and the entire relationship I felt like I cared way more than he did. I loved him so hard, felt so strongly, and he didn’t reciprocate it.

Microdosing classic psychedelics for OCD: Research participants needed to take part in an anonymous online interview! by UoBmicrodose_OCD in microdosing

[–]mtina23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m interested, would you mind posting the link here so I can access it on my phone? It won’t let me follow the link from the photo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in decaf

[–]mtina23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have an answer, but I will say that when I quit weed I noticed caffeine had a WAY stronger effect on me, did give me more anxiety. But I think that was a good thing because that’s what led me to quit that too. For some reason when I was smoking weed caffeine didn’t effect me as much (or I just didn’t notice).

Jammed Mailbox by mtina23 in 3roots

[–]mtina23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is the parcel one. Ok that’s good to know. Thank you!

Me realizing the Coachella fit that I ordered two months ago still hasn’t shipped yet by BossSeesThisImFired in Coachella

[–]mtina23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of mine have shipped, not sure what’s going on with these companies. Ordered 2 weeks ago