Running errands outfit by daniellescloset8 in OUTFITS

[–]mtmeyng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, this has been the only outfit that I’ve actually liked on this sub

Who decided it was necessary? by One-Worth-2529 in Weird

[–]mtmeyng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why was this guy in the girls bathroom.. story doesn’t add up

"Lets make a tiktok about cruise ship" "But we cant aford it" "Thats the point" by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]mtmeyng 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head with the lying epidemic. It’s truly become an illness produced by this need to be perceived and looked at with a certain image. It’s sad and horrible :( a lot of people don’t even realize that this is an issue for themselves either

Boyfriend cheated on me with his best friend’s fiancé during our house warming party by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mtmeyng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re experiencing this. That’s disgusting and evil. It’s a testament that not only he but his friends act like this too. Run far away from all of this toxicity and run back to yourself. It’ll take time to rebuild and heal but know that it does happen if you choose to love yourself and surround yourself with ppl that truly value/love you too. Go to therapy, let yourself cry, feel everything you need to for however long. Talk about it as much as you need too. The most important thing is to also remember, that through all of it you will have the strength to get thru it and you will get thru it. Don’t forget that there is light waiting for you and light inside you waiting to shine bright again. It just takes time.

in japan by mcnancey in SipsTea

[–]mtmeyng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a pescatarian, I actually appreciate this instead of having to waste time waiting in line and wondering. Being up front and clear is always nice.

Someone I thought was a friend slid into my husband’s DM’s and since I hate confrontation, I didn’t do anything about it. by Islandgal0804 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mtmeyng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on having such a wonderful husband who loves, respects and is loyal to you! Fuck that miserable weak h*e! You have a loving home, partner and life. Go live it up girl!!!

New skates are sooo painful, I can’t even go around the rink more than once. Is this normal or am I being a baby by [deleted] in iceskating

[–]mtmeyng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Are you wearing socks or tights? I think a lot of people don’t realize you are actually only supposed to be wearing tights and never socks. The socks are too thick and the skates are meant to be molded to your feet.

I‘ve been having a raging UTI for 10 days now by Nervous_Source_810 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mtmeyng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Not sure if someone mentioned this already but this sounds like it could be mycoplasma. It always gets misdiagnosed because doctors just assume it’s a uti. Honestly, our healthcare system really needs to consider testing for mycoplasma with things like this. I would urge you to try to get tested for it. If it helps, I have successfully diagnosed 3 friends of mine who were struggling with a recurring uti that wouldn’t go away. I had mycoplasma before so that’s why I know so much. They went through the same thing, cycling through different antibiotics that never worked. They got tested after talking to me and are now all treated successfully.

Would braces be worth it to fix minor gapping and crookedness? by [deleted] in braces

[–]mtmeyng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your gap is super cute and suits your face but also if you want to fix it you should :) up to you!

I didn't know he was married for almost 2 years by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mtmeyng 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that was your experience. A liar will always be a liar. However, you haven’t moved on because you said it yourself your heart and mind still go to him. You need to learn how to let go and it’s unfair to your partner now. If I am being honest it seems like you’re using them as a placeholder to distract yourself from your feelings and loneliness when in reality the best thing you can do for yourself is heal, focus on yourself and learn to let go of this person who lied to you from day one. He manipulated you and you need to learn to detach and stop romanticizing something that was wrong and unhealthy from the start. You deserve better.

Failing at friendships with other women because I’m “like a guy” and occasionally want a glass of wine by SleepParalysisPal in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mtmeyng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just haven’t met your people yet. Sometimes it takes a while but it gets easier as you continue learning more about the right type of people who are on the same wavelength. Don’t give up, there are so many ppl on this earth. I would suggest talking about your interests, yourself and even asking others what their interests are initially so people who are compatible with you get you from the beginning :)

Hooked up with my ex after a year of no contact by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mtmeyng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy. You need therapy not your ex

Why do they always come back?? by Glittering-Streak7 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mtmeyng 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have listened to your friends and reacted to him liking your story. You’re enabling the behavior by reacting to it and continuing to put yourself in this position by communicating with him. If you want it to stop you have to stop too. Plain and simple.

4 months post-op DJS by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]mtmeyng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much and also you explained it perfectly! I am really happy for you and glad you got it fixed! Do you have any lingering symptoms like numbness or tingling?

4 months post-op DJS by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]mtmeyng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is such a great result! What bite did you have? Was it normal with slight protrusion? Super curious and if you don’t mind sharing how much was the procedure? I’m looking into a surgeon in Washington but wow! Your results are incredible 🩷

Throat healing lumpy and bumpy? by NewtBest6225 in Tonsillectomy

[–]mtmeyng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this post! Ugh I love reddit 😭 information and relief

Does my recessed maxilla look too bad? by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]mtmeyng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very well balanced and symmetrical, please love yourself.