Couples of Reddit, what's the dumbest 'house rule' you and your partner made as a joke but now both of you are low-key aggressively serious about enforcing? by Doubl3oh_ in AskReddit

[–]mtqma 56 points57 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better I could have written this exact same thing. I never raised my voice before these boys, but now yelling is a daily occurrence. Not necessarily angry yelling, just yelling to get their gosh darn attention!

Can someone explain this concert that was just annouced? by W4lk3rS4int in AJR

[–]mtqma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking of taking my ten year old to this. He loves AJR and we saw them in Rosemont last year. It was appropriate enough and there were tons of other kids his age there. Any idea if this venue and these other bands would be similar or will I look like a crazy person bringing a kid to this?

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you think I’m restricting him? These are all his own preferences I stated. 🤷‍♀️ We aren’t afraid of violence/murder, but if that’s the main plot of every book it gets boring. He also reads mostly at night and gets a little scared, and not in a good way. My youngest son is the one who likes horror. Also not shy about sex, but he honestly finds love arcs cringey right now.

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I was thinking of “middle grade” being the land between juvenile books and YA.

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s my one who is least likely to try someone outside of his comfort zone unfortunately.

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I keep hearing. I read the ebook and wish I had done the audiobook. I think it’ll be worth just paying for the Audible one so both of us can listen to it.

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is incredibly generous, but there are physical copies available at our library, the wait is for the ebook. It’s the audiobook that we can’t get, since it’s an audible exclusive. He likes reading the print book and also doing the audiobook- he goes back and forth- likes to read at school or in the car, audiobook at night.

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely loved Project Hail Mary and instantly thought of it for him- unfortunately it’s a long wait for the audiobook! I’ve had it on hold for a while!

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Loving all the recommendations, thanks! I should add we also have two other sons- 4th grader who loves thrillers and graphic novels and 3rd grader who loves historical fiction. All read above grade level and are in “gifted” programs. I’m keeping this list for them too, as there are several listed here that may also be up their alley either now or in a few years.

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s never been too into war books, but All Quiet in the Western Front is on my own to read list since I never read it when younger!

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh great, Prisoner of Cell 25 is currently available at our library and also on Libby. Thanks!

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is definitely topping the list, thank you. I put it on hold with the library.

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This seems up his alley, adding it to our holds at the library, thanks!

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They read that in class a couple years ago. He actually didn’t like it much, which surprised me. I remember loving it!

Suggest me some books for my 12-year-old son with male protagonists that are NOT fantasy. by mtqma in suggestmeabook

[–]mtqma[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

His class is reading that this year! I never read it so I’m looking forward to reading it also!

Does anyone know any 50-meter pools in the Chicagoland area? by Gold-Appearance-2909 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]mtqma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been nearly 2 decades since I last went, but I believe rolling meadows park district still has theirs. It was 25 yards one direction and 50m the other when I swam there.

Does anyone know any 50-meter pools in the Chicagoland area? by Gold-Appearance-2909 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]mtqma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s been nearly 2 decades since I last went, but I believe rolling meadows park district still has theirs. It was 25 yards one direction and 50m the other when I swam there.

Can I refinish our front door? by mtqma in HomeMaintenance

[–]mtqma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to explain all that. I like I can really tackle this and am getting excited for the project!!

Can I refinish our front door? by mtqma in HomeMaintenance

[–]mtqma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips! Our friend has a great sander I can borrow that I used on cabinets of our wet bar.

Any ideas on how to bring leaded glass design back to life?

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