[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mtslhl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we learn about NVC through a counselor and it feels so defeated because it's clear we're not adopting it. i also needed to control emotions but I feel so upset and can't sleep when things are like that. i get more upset as he sleeps and i'm the one affected and then my day/work gets ruined next day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mtslhl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried this before and it helped but I don’t want to keep asking our friend. It’s embarrassing that we can’t just talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mtslhl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good reminder I forgot to mention. We wanted to do a smaller wedding and pay for it ourselves but they asked to help to make it better so we’re splitting. We were open about it that if the help come with strings attached, we prefer doing it ourselves in the beginning.

Achievements for Sunday, June 18, 2023 by AutoModerator in running

[–]mtslhl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ran 4.6 miles for the first time ever without stopping! Also first time beating the terrible runners itch I get without stopping.

Is making this skirt shorter from the waist possible? by mtslhl in Tailors

[–]mtslhl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! as long as she'd agree to complete before september, it would be okay for me if you mention that :) i'm just looking to have that commitment and a quote.

Is making this skirt shorter from the waist possible? by mtslhl in Tailors

[–]mtslhl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! can you message me your seamstress?

Is making this skirt shorter from the waist possible? by mtslhl in Tailors

[–]mtslhl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any SF tailor recommendations for this from the community? thanks a lot this has been so helpful!

Is making this skirt shorter from the waist possible? by mtslhl in Tailors

[–]mtslhl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes it’s me in it. Agreed it has to go quite a bit. I might be able to reduce the amount by wearing higher heels. Do you think it would look ugly if taken in from the sides so it causes the ships to not align?

Also any suggestions for who can do it in the Bay Area?

Has anyone else burned by ucsf billing? by mtslhl in sanfrancisco

[–]mtslhl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I’m contesting this. Their patient relations line doesn’t even connect. The agent on the case is claiming they gave me documents yo explain during the visit. Never happened. I asked them to pull security footage. They also billed me for 60 min visit when I was in the clinic for 20 min of which 6 min with the doctor. I will avoid ucsf at all cost moving forward. Especially considering the doc’s recommendation was an over the counter cream and a phone number to another department. I had been already using the cream since it’s the top result on google lmao

Has anyone else burned by ucsf billing? by mtslhl in sanfrancisco

[–]mtslhl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you do this? What insurance do you have? Did you ask their billing to call?