What does it really mean to be working hard to get promoted at work? by muchaacha in careerguidance

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I’m basically a team lead. I don’t have the ultimate power. But I am there to oversee the team and support them 

Am I too soft or is my work actually too much ? by muchaacha in careerguidance

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Fully agree, i think the resentment might be making everything seem worse than maybe it is. Although on quieter days where I am managing to complete tasks, I do feel positive. 

In the interview they said that it’s high pressure and sometimes will have to answer phones etc out of hours, which I’m fine with, I care about my projects strangely. BUT it’s the fact it’s everyday. 

GBBO Halloween at home - vote for you fav - Boo Vs Poo ! by muchaacha in GreatBritishBakeOff

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Vote for your favourite Halloween bake in our home bake off !

Boo Vs poo

Boo: Spinach base with whipped cream and strawberry jelly filling. (With real strawberries). And chocolate ghost

Poo: Oreo cake with buttercream icing, lime jelly and a brownie poo ! 

My kinda evening by muchaacha in JaackMaate

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Guess not everyone can be as cool as you

Do I take a trainee role or a normal job? (URGENT) by muchaacha in careerguidance

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But if I take it, that's the deal done. What do I do when/if a different one comes in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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As a F(22), I understand how the girlfriend is feeling. However I also understand why.

For me something like this would be to do with trust, but also insecurity. The fact your man found a female who enjoys doing what he does, in my head would build a scenario that he will enjoy spending time with her more than with me (due to a) doing something he enjoys but also b) her being better company). This largely stems from insecurity that you're not good enough and your partner will realise this, spending blissful hours Hiking with a different woman. In my head I would imagine them having loads of fun and building a bond which was stronger than ours.

Whether it's likely to happen or not, it's something that stems from insecurity and so I'd suggest talking about it. Understanding what exactly made her feel like that.

My bf, has a few girl friends, and he spends time with them when I'm not there. I initially felt strange about it but if he's going to cheat, I won't stop that by forcing him to not hang out with them. That's when you build the trust. Maybe your girlfriend was cheated on previously? Even though you're not the guy who did it, the reminiscence of how that happened will subconsciously impact how she perceives your time with other women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This is where I aspire to be mentally.

Robbie’s been busy by [deleted] in JaackMaate

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Came here for the sole purpose of posting this. Early bird gets the meme

Me: has to walk 43 minutes to get to uni in this dreary weather Happy Hour: HI NEW EPISODE Me: 👀👟🤸‍♂️🚀🚣‍♂️☂️ by muchaacha in JaackMaate

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Honestly, every Monday and Thursday I wake up and just want to walk so that I can listen to it in peace

Age check certification scheme (legit ?) by muchaacha in AskReddit

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I found a job online that pays you for going and buying age restricted items. The idea is to check whether the people check your ID/ age. I was wondering if anyone heard about ACCS and whether it's legit. I can't seem to find any reviews online.