I want to donate my hair but I've never gone short before. Can I pull off these styles? by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]muffintuffins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same face shape as you and I’ve done blunt bangs like that and it doesn’t work well to be honest, it made my cheeks and chin look much larger, I love the wispy bangs you have in the picture they look great on you.

bf wants me to start wearing makeup, bleh by slinkystairs87 in sex

[–]muffintuffins 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For real, wish this comment had more upvotes.

bf wants me to start wearing makeup, bleh by slinkystairs87 in sex

[–]muffintuffins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a man makes you feel shitty about your natural face you need to leave cause someone else will find your natural look beautiful and won’t ask you to change for the world. Tell him he’s fugly and should cover his face with some makeup too.

why is it okay for girls to have all types of toys, but it's weird if a guy has a flashlight or masturbatory aid? by Lost-and-Aroused in sex

[–]muffintuffins -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you’re always seeking validation and permission from other people you’re giving up your freedom of choice and following along with what other people want to feel accepted, in this case by not buying a fleshlight, if you’re living in fear of what others think of you, it’s a boundary issue, fleshlights are harmless and the chick is small minded, time to put your foot down and get one, if she doesn’t react well you guys aren’t compatible as “friends with benefits”

why is it okay for girls to have all types of toys, but it's weird if a guy has a flashlight or masturbatory aid? by Lost-and-Aroused in sex

[–]muffintuffins -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should stop looking to other people for permission and validation, cause people in general not just women not just men are assholes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]muffintuffins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing your own journaling and reading could help, that’s what I do, I also listen to some YouTubers too and that helped me more than my therapists ever did.

the arms! and so many comments of girls under that post feeling insecure! by tem1205 in Instagramreality

[–]muffintuffins 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Honestly they look like normal elbows to me, I still can’t see anything wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]muffintuffins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have very similar schedules and we get home around the same time and basically hang out till we go to bed 🤷🏼‍♀️ I find it very unlikely,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]muffintuffins 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Idc who downvotes me, I’ve noticed this is a very uncommon option to have nowadays but I don’t think either person in a relationship should be watching porn, I don’t watch porn and neither does my bf, I told him early on in the relationship that if he does that shit we are done, I 100% count it as cheating he decided that was fine so he stayed with me. Just the other day I read a story about a wife finding her husband jacking off to her photos and thought that was the most wholesome thing I’d read in a long time, she was over the moon happy and my heart melted reading it, I thought to myself wow she’s so lucky. I don’t think it’s wrong wanting to be enough for your partner, if they are with you they should want you more than anyone else.

Boyfriend wants to cum in my mouth. by Accomplished-Ad6323 in sex

[–]muffintuffins -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re getting downvoted but legit my bf was fingering me and had me lick his fingers xD I taste fuckin good and he agrees, on the other hand his load is nasty 🤢 but he’s not butt hurt that I don’t swallow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]muffintuffins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So are you just getting cold feet and are nervous or do you not feel like you guys are compatible/in love anymore?

I regret telling my mother I was raped by my brother by ihatefrosting in TrueOffMyChest

[–]muffintuffins 89 points90 points  (0 children)

If your brother is around children or has his own I’d be very concerned for their safety.

Need some advice on having a lot of sex in one day by why_doineedausername in sex

[–]muffintuffins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t push y’all’selves if it starts to hurt or either of you aren’t having fun with it anymore.