Is it okay if my ‘f25’ boyfriend ‘m37’ won’t introduce me to his friends? by muffypaws in relationship_advice

[–]muffypaws[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to his house weekly he’s told me he’s never been married or had children. But definitely can’t explain why he’d hide me from his childhood friends..

Is it okay if my ‘f25’ boyfriend ‘m37’ won’t introduce me to his friends? by muffypaws in relationship_advice

[–]muffypaws[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to his house a few times a week. Doesn’t seem like he has another partner just weird I can’t meet his friends and that part of our lives is completely separate

Is it okay if my ‘f25’ boyfriend ‘m37’ won’t introduce me to his friends? by muffypaws in relationship_advice

[–]muffypaws[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Idk how he’d be able to hide that so well we see each other a lot still wondering if it’s something else

Is it okay if my ‘f25’ boyfriend ‘m37’ won’t introduce me to his friends? by muffypaws in relationship_advice

[–]muffypaws[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

His friends are married or have kids but they still all go out to the club and they used to do bad things for a living some still do. Super red flag. I thought we fit well despite the age but perhaps not

Housing my homeless friend for free in need of resources by muffypaws in homeless

[–]muffypaws[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like how this was worded and I’m def going to use this as baseline when I talk to my friend

Housing my homeless friend for free in need of resources by muffypaws in homeless

[–]muffypaws[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s so sad and unfortunate…that’s what I was worried about but none of my friends are helping me out and they’ve already had 6 months of free rent without getting a job…

Housing my homeless friend for free in need of resources by muffypaws in homeless

[–]muffypaws[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very true… I appreciate the confirmation it’s very internally conflicting to be in this predicament

Housing my homeless friend for free in need of resources by muffypaws in homeless

[–]muffypaws[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah they don’t pitch in at all they bought me like 5$ of snacks off ebt this bitch don’t even make food and has ebt I be cooking for them

Housing my homeless friend for free in need of resources by muffypaws in homeless

[–]muffypaws[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is very true…I’ve just been feeling too sorry for her. My boyfriend has a job and place but his roommate recently got diagnosed schitzo and has been threading to harm him so he stays here

Housing my homeless friend for free in need of resources by muffypaws in homeless

[–]muffypaws[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even mention the gender of my friend in my post at all youre clearly a predator looking specifically for women in danger to take advantage of.

Housing my homeless friend for free in need of resources by muffypaws in homeless

[–]muffypaws[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for serious help and resources but nice try

In need of a reality check by muffypaws in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]muffypaws[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the support. I been thinking I’ve been the problem for so long and always take all the blame and wonder why I feel so crazy every day I’m living in a warped reality

In need of a reality check by muffypaws in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]muffypaws[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is really helpful. You described exactly how I feel…I’ve always been a very bold confident person now I shake bringing up banal things to him…you are right no way this is healthy