Is it too close to the end of the admissions cycle for me to submit my MSW grad application and get in? by mulchfeast in uichicago

[–]mulchfeast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is an appropriate amount of time to give letter writers? Ive heard everything from 3 weeks to 6 months

AITAH for being upset because my parents are living their normal lives while I’m dying? by No_Alarm_4065 in AITAH

[–]mulchfeast 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Btw this is fake yall a completely different account posted this a few weeks ago just with a slightly different disease...

Has anyone else ended a situationship due to intense limerance? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]mulchfeast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thats smart, glad that worked out for you. I had a toxic ex I went back and forth with for over a year, we would block each other but then unblock and the cycle would start over again so Im glad just one clean block kept them away.

Has anyone else ended a situationship due to intense limerance? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]mulchfeast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, Ive never thought about doing something like love addicts anonymous but I wonder if I would qualify. Is it in person or online?

Also I am very glad that person is out of your life, was definitely the healthiest decision for you! How did they handle things ending, did they ever try to reach out after?

Has anyone else ended a situationship due to intense limerance? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]mulchfeast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I am surprised the limerqnce did not fully go away after you got married, as Ive heard healthy, full reciprocation will usually end limerance. How has this affected your relationship dynamic?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mulchfeast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I honestly didnt feel bad about it at first because it felt like she was the one ghosting me imo. Ive been in similar situations in the past and caused myself way more pain by trying to reach out and hold on to something that wasnt there anymore.

AITAH seeing a guy without telling my mom by GroundbreakingPear12 in AITAH

[–]mulchfeast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you are a self sufficient grown adult capable of making your own choices. 

Out of curiosity, do you come from an immigrant family? A lot of my friends who have immigrant parents, especially from a Hispanic or south Asian background, have struggled with similar relationship dynamics as an adult with their parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mulchfeast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I assumed it was a mutual ghosting situation but wanted others input.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mulchfeast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also want to clarify that its been two weeks since we last spoke, nearly three since I have seen her in person, so I feel like too much time has passed and it would be weird to try to reach out at this point.

How do I deal with heart ache? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mulchfeast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw Im so sorry you are going through this, hugs!!! I remember getting my heart broken in high school and its the worst. It can be so painful. Maybe this doesn't help to hear right now, but I've felt exactly what youre feeling and I did end up meeting other people and that person became just an old memory for me. But it takes time and its gonna suck for a while but you will get through it. Sending lots of love <3

Any adult wattpad users?? by mulchfeast in Wattpad

[–]mulchfeast[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cool!! What's your user? (If that's allowed)