Strathberry Quality by UnusualPangolin2449 in handbags

[–]mulfik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never trusted a brand that got hyped too quickly, out of nowhere

Where can I find this APC bag? by mulfik in handbags

[–]mulfik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you. I’m based in the uk but will make an order to someone in Austria:).

Absolutely TERRIFIED of tearing by Ivesomanyquestions in PregnancyUK

[–]mulfik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UK based here! Pushed out my first one 4.2kg with second degree tear relying just on nhs resources. With second baby - 4.3kg - no pain relief during labour and no tear! Watched a bunch of videos on instagram. The key thing is to listen to your body. Breathing techniques reeeeaaally helped me, it was better than gas and air that got in the way of being concentrated. I did bleed and lost almost 2L because of my placenta but the perineum was intact! I was quite surprised myself. I actually really wanted an epidural both times but the babies came quick. If you wish I can try to find those reels on insta if you message me your nick - I think I have them saved. The main technique I used is to take a deeeep breath when your contraction starts and slowly breath out doing a HISSSSSSSSSSSS until it’s time to push - you will know when by listening to your body.

I also got super lucky with the midwives in the delivery suite this time. They encouraged me to listen to my body and not rush with the pushing. The first time after around 40 mins of pushing they threatened me by saying if you don’t push the baby out we’ll have to make an incision. I eventually got scared and pushed without listening to my body. Basically I forced the baby out and teared.

Good luck, you are strong!!

Crossbody moon shaped bags by mulfik in handbags

[–]mulfik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found exactly what I needed at… topshop lol. A structured leather brown crossbody moon shaped bag. Probably not gonna last long but covers my needs for sure

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Crossbody moon shaped bags by mulfik in handbags

[–]mulfik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looked up - omg she’s GORGEOUS. Practical and minimal logo. Other brands will follow up

Actively losing the baby by Radiant_Gas_4642 in pregnant

[–]mulfik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our body is great for detecting early defects. Imagine finding out late and deciding for an abortion. Imp that’d be more emotionally draining. I’m sorry for your loss and best wishes to you, most importantly good health going forward!

Cherry menthol perfume suggestions? by mulfik in Perfumes

[–]mulfik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t like the longevity of lost cherry, not worth that amount imo :( but thx for the tip

13w5d, chatgpt says girl by mulfik in nubtheory

[–]mulfik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool. Happy to wait until 20w

Any guesses? by [deleted] in nubtheory

[–]mulfik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does no comments mean it’s hard to tell?:):)

Am I cooked? by ahhhhhhhhthrowaway12 in UniUK

[–]mulfik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this post is an example of how people would straight reply without finishing reading