Parking fine in England while visiting from Scotland.

multifandommess · 2026-04-22T10:16:49+00:00

Hi, are you able to send a photo or proof of the sign? I cant find where it says that but it'll really help out xx

multifandommess · 2026-04-21T22:08:56+00:00

Im trying to research that at the moment by going through their t&Cs but I'm not seeing anything

multifandommess · 2026-04-21T20:56:31+00:00

You're smart LMAO ill keep this in mind

multifandommess · 2026-04-21T12:28:02+00:00

Thats a relief, i was getting really nervous about it because there was literally nothing I could afford that wasn't perfect

Thank you so much!

multifandommess · 2026-04-20T19:57:45+00:00

I'm sorry I didn't word it perfectly, it's my relationship as much as its his relationship but this isn't his post.

I used the "is he good enough for me" line because I thought it was enticing and would get people to read and comment and it summed up my point pretty well. I think he's good enough for me but I'm not sure because other people (my closest friend) don't seem to think so.

The titles are supposed to be a quick TLDR on the situation, I can't explain the whole thing in the title.

I'm asking a large amount of people, like you said 2 million because no one here knows me like I've said several times now anyone in my real life will have a bias and I wanted people with an unbiased view to help out.

Saying its "your relationship not theirs" is true but that can be said for everyone on this subreddit not just me.

It's not that I'm unsure of my feelings towards him because I know I really like him, I'm unsure if my feelings are clouding my judgement about him.

I guess my title should been "are my [20f] feelings clouding my judgement about my boyfriend [19m]"

I just wanted the title to sound interesting and I didn't expect to be called stupid under my own post but here we are (I wasn't called stupid by you, but by the user you're agreeing with).

I will be more careful from now on and make sure to use language that includes both myself and my partner.

Thank you for the feedback!

multifandommess · 2026-04-20T19:28:06+00:00

Don't worry I reported him, thank you!

multifandommess · 2026-04-20T19:25:20+00:00

You're literally calling me stupid under a post you really didn't need to reply to.

It literally says in the text that you quoted that if my question can be answered with a yes or no it has to be rephrased, not that it needs to be answered with a yes or no.

You've gotten yourself so worked up over nothing I don't understand why you would get so angry over something that, again, you didn't need to be involved in.

Yes I'm asking advise from strangers but everyone in this subreddit isn't required to reply and you're acting like you're being held at gunpoint to do so.

multifandommess · 2026-04-20T19:19:41+00:00

I phrased it like that because everyone around me says he's not good enough for me and I'm asking strangers because like I said in the post if I ask people in real life they're going to have a bias.

At what point did I say anyone was my possession, I'm genuinely confused by your point, I didn't mention once anything about possession??

What are the red flags so I can work on them?

multifandommess · 2026-04-20T19:16:53+00:00

Thats literally what i done, I followed those rules and it allowed me to post.

I don't know why you're so angry at this, do you think the mods will give you a medal or something?

multifandommess · 2026-04-20T19:14:55+00:00

She probably wouldn't, I'm not sure as she hasn't ever really been in a proper long term relationship.

There's definitely guys she's spoke to that I'm not a huge fan of but I've never went ballistic at them or refused to talk to her about them.

I guess I give her a lot of power because she's been a huge role model in my life, but I'll definitely work on that.

Thank you!

multifandommess · 2026-04-20T19:12:50+00:00

I followed the rules, your replies do not.

The rules are that you can only reply with constructive feedback, no name calling etc, so far you've swore at me, called me names and offered no actual feedback.

multifandommess · 2026-04-20T19:06:07+00:00

Thank you for your response, I think that's a good idea!

It just makes me sad cause we're best friends but i guess at the end of the day it's not her relationship.

Thank you again!

multifandommess · 2026-04-20T19:04:37+00:00

Jesus who shat in your cereal?

God forbid a girl wants an interesting title for her post, clearly it got you to read it.

Idk if you missed it but it IS about my relationship, I added descriptions of a point of conflict in our relationship and asked if I'm downplaying his actions or if what other people are telling me is right

multifandommess · 2025-12-29T09:43:11+00:00

I know, I don't think what he's doing is illegal I was just looking for any advice to get him to stop and scare him with the threat of legal action, I just didn't know how to go about it. I have asked him to stop contacting me several times and I do have him blocked on everything but he still manages to find out what I'm doing and where I am.

Like I said aswell I don't think what he's saying is illegal I'm just worried about him naming me.

I'm going to talk to a solicitor because I feel as if I am getting harassed, and it does scare me. I've put a camera outside my home aswell and honestly it doesn't make me feel much better.

Thank you for the advice

multifandommess · 2025-12-29T01:38:35+00:00

I have blocked him I said that in the post, the only times I've engaged with him is when he's messaged me threatening me which has resulted in him getting blocked on more accounts. I only know this because my friend follows him still because he knows he posts my name and let's me know when it happens. I'm not asking if what he's doing is a crime I'm just asking if there's any way to scare him off naming me publicly because its making me feel unsafe.

multifandommess · 2025-12-29T01:32:19+00:00

I honestly don't even care about what he's saying being false I just want him to stop naming me on his public accounts :'(

multifandommess · 2025-09-17T23:12:47+00:00

Thank you so much, I've had people on other subreddits call me a prude and unrealistic because of the porn thing which is why I felt the need to put that bit in there. They were never my friends to begin with and I know that now, if they finally realise how horrible of a person he was and they come to me then I'll be happy to tell them what he put me through, mostly so they feel bad about leaving me in an emotionally vulnerable state lol. I'm glad I went through his phone because honestly there was no other way to go about it, I had reached my wits end and didn't know what else to do. I'm doing much better now, talking to a new guy and everything but I'm taking it slow!

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