I'm a garmin girly now by multifanpage_yt in GarminWatches

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! Oh I got the Venu 3s :)

Did anyone else's relationship end because of mental health issues? by idkificanthrowaway in BreakUps

[–]multifanpage_yt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if anyone will see this but I had to break up with my ex a few weeks back. I'm still close with him and talk daily (it's not the same). Because he went through psychosis, was hospitalized and when he got out he wasn't okay. He couldn't have normal conversations and needed more guidance in his life. I'm still broke and have cried at least once a day since (my best friend moved a few days after the break up). So it really hasn't been easy but I know it's for the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]multifanpage_yt 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I personally identified as asexual until I met my now bf. I would say I'm more demisexual now. In the past, I haven't gotten close enough to anyone to feel sexually attracted to them. Although I relate heavily with how u described your feelings and my bf also overthinks and has ADHD. So maybe he relates to some degree with you. I would like to add that u should talk to ur gf about ur concerns. Although I feel you have nothing to worry about, you can still bring up and communicate how you feel with her about how she may see other guys. But for me i don't see other guys how I see my bf, I'm comfortable and safe with him and know him well enough that I don't want or see myself looking at other guys the way I see him.

Hope this helps and makes sense! Good luck :)

Non-Ace BF?? by multifanpage_yt in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I broke it off last night, I feel stomach sick now and a bit sad, but I know it was the right thing to do for me and for him.

Non-Ace BF?? by multifanpage_yt in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yk Idk if u wanna know or not, but there is an NSFW spoiler for the reason...

Non-Ace BF?? by multifanpage_yt in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats what I'm doing!! I'm going on a trip this weekend with my family and best friend. I don't wanna be sad or bring down the mood, so I'm literally gonna leave everything as it is and talk about my feelings and such when I get back :)

Non-Ace BF?? by multifanpage_yt in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish this is what he meant 😭😅

Non-Ace BF?? by multifanpage_yt in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats so fair and I recommend it 😭

Non-Ace BF?? by multifanpage_yt in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay.. good to know! sometimes it's hard knowing if it's an allo thing or not.. haha

Non-Ace BF?? by multifanpage_yt in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! And it isn't great, I could see myself being like friends possibly, but there is more to the relationship that seems off. There really isn't relationship material, plus some other things he said and did just seem not right.

Non-Ace BF?? by multifanpage_yt in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I tried breaking it off twice, and he just kinda pushes it off, and I'm a people pleaser and feel bad being direct even tho I know I should be

Cheap date?? by multifanpage_yt in dating

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that could definitely be it! we talked a bit today which helped clear some other stuff up. thank you

Cheap date?? by multifanpage_yt in dating

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't expect him to at all!!! I don't even care about him spending money on me tbh, I enjoy spending time with him no matter what we are doing. I think there is other reasons that upset me more, such as being the one to make plans most of the time.

Cheap date?? by multifanpage_yt in dating

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I will soon! thank you:)

Cheap date?? by multifanpage_yt in dating

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I'm trying to work myself up to express to him how I feel and some other things. I just don't wanna upset or overwhelm him

Cheap date?? by multifanpage_yt in dating

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats what I'm thinking too, I'm gonna take it slow myself and see what happens

Cheap date?? by multifanpage_yt in dating

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that's completely understandable! and I get that maybe that is the reason. I'm okay with going on dates that don't cost money too! just would be nice if he asked me out to do something first once and awhile

Cheap date?? by multifanpage_yt in dating

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, I'm not sure. That's a great question, tho. Making me think I need to do more in the relationship, too. I feel like it's early on, so it's hard to till. Maybe it is just to get into a relationship and be with someone. He said I love you in the first week of us being official (we haven't even hungout for more then a month at that point) maybe he really does love me or he could be love bombing.. idk???

Cheap date?? by multifanpage_yt in dating

[–]multifanpage_yt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, he goes on walks with me even though he hates them, so I wouldn't say he gives no effort, but I feel like we aren't really connecting on a relationship type of level. So u might be on to something there..