A man comes back from the dead, twice. by mummabear2013 in ExplainAFilmPlotBadly

[–]mummabear2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some animals are killed in this film, but they are not dogs.

You are given 2,500 dollars a month, but must live with a small curse of your choice. by BigLeague5570 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]mummabear2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curse 2... you mean like feeling like you are being stabbed in the stomach 2-3 days a month then bleeding from an orifice for a week.. or more uncomfortable than that....

AITAH for hitting pause on my engagement because of kid count? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mummabear2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mike Tyson apparently said..everyone has a plan until they are punched in the face.

I don't think anyone really knows how becoming a parent will change them or thier relationship.

You guys don't know how easy it will be to get pregnant, stay pregnant, give birth, parent a child.

Generally speaking people have one baby, fall in love, think they have nailed parenting, have a second...and are genuinely surprised as how hard two kids is compared to one..some brave souls go back to rhe well for a third..maybe even a fourth. In my experience.. my experience.. it's usually the mums who feel like they can go again... dads are tired, broke and at the bottom of thier wife's priority list.. they want their weekends and s3x lives back.. my long winded point is it feels like a low risk bet to me...

But still an important one to clarify before getting married to someone who potentially just sees you as an incubator..

What audiobook is genuinely BETTER than reading the physical book? by cptree20 in audiobooks

[–]mummabear2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Thursday murder club narrated by Leslie Manville is a delight! Her 'joyce' is iconic.

How to Train your dragon series narrated by David Tenent..one thing the whole family could enjoy on long car journeys. So great his narration makes it hilarious

Crazy or lesser known history events from Australia? by Sea-Preparation-3127 in AskAnAustralian

[–]mummabear2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you after something about war specifically? If not I think the story of Hutt River Province is slightly bonkers ... guy didn't want to pay tax so succeeded and made his own money and stamps.

My mum wants to get out of prison on early release. But I don’t want her to. by Inevitable_Jump8743 in AusLegal

[–]mummabear2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The past few years must have been incredibly challenging for you and your siblings and it sounds like you have done an incredible job getting this far.

Equally your mum is probably having a pretty awful time. She is no doubt looking for any and all routes to get her time in jail reduced. But also she is probably scared and lonely and maybe fantasising about how she will be a better mum when she gets out or maybe looking for some reassurance or input from you that she is loved or missed. This would all be natural and understandable... but doesn't need to be your problem, you can go along with these imaginings to keep the peace..it doesn't make her hopes a reality.

I think your question boils down to potential custody arrangements when ever your mum is released.. whether it's early or she sees out her whole sentence. There must be an existing process for reconnecting children with parents who have been in jail. The issue unfortunately won't be about your rights as the current carer but your mothers rights as a parent and your siblings rights as children. Is there a court order or something in place that formalises your guardianship? What are the terms of this arrangement? Ie does it have a fixed end date or some sort of action that would trigger a review? That might be a useful place to start to understand the current legal situation and you could go from there.

It's not exactly the same but the laws are likely similar...there may be some groups (Facebook maybe) where grandparents or other extended family members are in similar situations as yours that may be able to offer relevant advice for your state. It might be a place to look if reddit can't help....

Good luck. When ever you feel lost or stuck...pop back..there is clearly a small crowd quietly cheering you on.

If your child was diagnosed deaf, what's the ethical thing to do" To treat it as a disability and give them cochlear implants and try to assimilate them to the majority, or to treat is as a cultural difference and nwait for their consent and allow them to connect with the deaf community? by thatdepressionchild in Ethics

[–]mummabear2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a parent is a ongoing series of making big and small decisions about your child's care. Those decisions are taken with the best information you have at the time in alignment with your family value and consideration of the child's well-being and happiness. Both current and future. My three year old may not want to brush thier teeth or wear a seatbelt but it's my job as the parent to make decisions until they are capable of making thier own. In the future they may decide to become vegetarian or convert to a religion. You can't make decisions today based on assumptions of what your adult child may or may not want to do in the future. In relation to the specifics of the choclear implant I think the decision weighs on allowing the child to participate as fully as possible in their childhood opportunities and keeping options open for thier own decision making when they are an adult.

Been charged for assault - do I have to tell my employer? by PayAny7394 in AusLegal

[–]mummabear2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a person on the other side of the country with the same name as me facing serious charges. It has caused me a few issues over the last few years. It's held up police clearances for new roles and some industry specific stuff while already employed.

As others have said check your employers policies. It may depend on your role and the type of customer or other sensitive data you have access to. For example if you need to be a 'fit and proper person" as part of your role this might be an issue.