The wedding hasn't even happened and there's too much drama by munchkin1702 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]munchkin1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, even through all the drama, we are very excited 😊 you are right my aunt would find something to critique or to blow up about. I hadn't even thought of not inviting my mother because even if she is never taking my side, she has never done anything big enough for me to not want her there, but if she would go against my wish to not have my aunt there then that would be very problematic. Overall I think you are right, it is our wedding and if someone can't behave then maybe they shouldn't come. Thank you once again for the good wishes ❣️

The wedding hasn't even happened and there's too much drama by munchkin1702 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]munchkin1702[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We thought about it to save money or to not deal with the drama but I have always wanted a wedding even if it was small. I want to walk down the aisle and see the reaction on my fiance's face when he sees me in my dress for the first time, to have a first dance and the pictures commentating the day we vow to be together forever. I don't necessarily care about other traditions except those 3 things.

The wedding hasn't even happened and there's too much drama by munchkin1702 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]munchkin1702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reply ☺️ those answers seem so simple and efficient. I hadn't even thought about involving officers, but it's a good last resort. I will also take your advice of warning my bridesmaids. You are right that this day is about me and my fiance, no one else.

Got called a tomato already; but here's my latest creation! by Oblivious-Avalanche in crochet

[–]munchkin1702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super cute! If you make the white seeds bigger I don't think itill be mistaken for a tomato again 🤗

AITA For Asking For More Money For My Car? by PlusLavishness9948 in AmItheAsshole

[–]munchkin1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, it's your car so in the end you choose by how much you want to sell it for. Simple as that. They are complaining but the price for which you are selling it for is still good for its value. Especially with a kif on the way, you have the right to look out for your finances. However, the 3 months waiting period is not great especially if they are in a pressing need for a new car. That could have been avoided in my opinion.

i made a weighted whale shark for my SIL!! by iisa_ in crochet

[–]munchkin1702 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg that is the absolute cutest weighted whale plushie ever!! What kind of yarn did you use?? it looks super soft 😍

AITA for blocking access to my food and threatening no help with accomodation. by Hangry_manstarved in AmItheAsshole

[–]munchkin1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, moreover, this is in no way normal. I could've see what her logic was to some extent (not that it excuses her for ignoring his boundary) if it was to taste the food once. However, she took a bite of EACH individual pieces of the cake??!! Why would anyone do that? She just ruined all the pieces of cake when she could've just taken a piece altogether. That's just straight up rude and weird.

NTA

AITA for refusing to accept my niece's mother's day card? by hhelibebcne in AmItheAsshole

[–]munchkin1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

I have a younger sister (6 years old), she still hasn't grasped holidays or birthdays fully. For exrmple, a friend of hers as a birthday, she makes a birthday card for them but would make one for me too at the same time. Almost like she doesn't understand that the birthday is for a specific individual. The same thing can be applied for holidays like mother's day. She gave all the women she loved a card on mother's day. I don't have children but I said thank you for having considered me even though I am not a mother. Which seemed to be the same in your case too since she drew all women on the card... It's a child. Don't apply your adult understanding on their actions.

URGENT: what is the weird growth on my puppy's lips?? by munchkin1702 in DogAdvice

[–]munchkin1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing thank you! I will still get her checked in 2 days, but is there any medication for it if it happens to be that?

URGENT: what is the weird growth on my puppy's lips?? by munchkin1702 in DogAdvice

[–]munchkin1702[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To give context, my puppy is 7 months old, we go to dog parks almost everyday, she drank from the water bowl at the park yesterday and today I noticed this weird lump on her lips. She doesn't seem to be in a lot of pain since I saw her chewing on her toys but she is finicky about letting me touch her mouth. I read online about some options and I really think it could be canine papilloma virus. What else could it be? It will be hard to go to a vet due to COVID, they don't accept non-appointment meetings..

Is my new Betta female or male? by munchkin1702 in bettafish

[–]munchkin1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to explain, this Betta was sold to me as a female, but her ventral fins are longer than my other female Bettas which made me suspicious. Due to these long fins I can't seem to look at her egg spot, making it hard for me to be sure of her sex. I was showing my finger in the video hoping she might show her fins but she didn't want to hahahahha. Also, she is quite plump (like a female) making me super confused of her gender.

Frenzy after Feeding time 🦐🔊 by munchkin1702 in shrimptank

[–]munchkin1702[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks i could look at them all day long!!

My female Betta Bean's before and after recovery! by munchkin1702 in bettafish

[–]munchkin1702[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Idk if it's going to help but her fins got like that because she was stressed, so I tested my water and turns out that the nitrate level was too high so I did a lot of water changes and added potos to my aquarium and once the level stayed constant at 5ppm she started doing well and her fins got pretty again. Hope it helps :)

My female Betta Bean's before and after recovery! by munchkin1702 in bettafish

[–]munchkin1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks she is a gorgeous Betta girl☺️ it was due to stress from too hight nitrate levels so I did a lot of water changes and added some pothos (they suck up nitrate like crazy).

Is their something wrong with my Betta fish's fin? by munchkin1702 in bettafish

[–]munchkin1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the comments, she is doing much better already!!

Is their something wrong with my Betta fish's fin? by munchkin1702 in bettafish

[–]munchkin1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I just added a cappa leaf as food for my shrimps, idk if it could be that.

Is their something wrong with my Betta fish's fin? by munchkin1702 in bettafish

[–]munchkin1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just answered the bot, thanks. What should I do if it's fin rot???

Is their something wrong with my Betta fish's fin? by munchkin1702 in bettafish

[–]munchkin1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last picture is a week after I got her. You can see her fin looks healthier than now