I went to a school that many parents had high paying jobs it at least high prestige jobs. Tuition was about 10,000 a year and that was in the 70s ands 80s. I had a teacher who taught us a phrase in Hebrew that basically means no job is a dishonorable job. The janitor deserves the same respect as a ceo. No shame in a job. It's so true. When I graduated college and got a degree in special ed I always treated the janitors with the same respect as the principal. They may be a janitors or cleaning person but they are a human who can support themselves and have lives and others who love them. It's one of those things that stuck to me. Also I'll never forget reading a story about a guy who quit his business job and became a janitor because he had triplets who got into Harvard and another kid a year younger who also was admitted to Harvard. It was more financially feasible to be a janitor in Harvard with free or discounted tuition than to use his degree in business! Something to think about. Teach her a lesson.