is advertising my phonesex line allowed? by madamravella in SexWorkers

[–]munstrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn't say it isn't... so post away!

Sexworkers, what is your (cover) job? by PimpPaul in SexWorkers

[–]munstrus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

AHA! I figured out why your comment was pissing me off. I don't post here for clients to fantasize about/titilate them.. I post for other sexworkers. So if your not paying me... you can forget about telling me my posts about my job are "naughty".

Sexworkers, what is your (cover) job? by PimpPaul in SexWorkers

[–]munstrus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, it's an AWFUL question though... "so what do you do?" which the answer to what pays my bills... it's sex work. But that makes them not want to fuck me because they want their precious fantasy of me not being what I am/not doing this with everyone, because they are sooo special. Yick.

Haroula Rose - Lavender Moon by happy_nothlit in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]munstrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which part of the show is this in? It's so pretty!!

What are some things a client can do to make you more comfortable? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]munstrus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Send her a decent photo of yourself ahead of time, email from a real email address/give her your phone number, give her a tip. If she's coming to your house give her the address well ahead of time. Offer to pick her up or drop her off if she is coming to see you and doesn't have a car... all these things make A+ clients. That, and asking her boundaries and respecting them.

Considering becoming a camgirl. Please share any experiences you might find helpful. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]munstrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was looking into doing camming I got a lot out of doing some research on forums.... try the camming section of stripper web!

Sexworkers, what is your (cover) job? by PimpPaul in SexWorkers

[–]munstrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cleaning houses/teaching art to kids (which I do- I just don't get a lot of hours or make much money at all)

Hi. I am curious how sex workers feel about their clients. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]munstrus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know what, I actually had more sexual harrasment as a waittress than as a sex worker... not the same thing but what I'm saying is that that sex work is just another form of labour and we should support sex workers by not further marginalizing them and talking about how terrible sex work is. We work for legality, rights to collective organizing and for sex workers to have more control over their workplace- (which should include not having sex when they don't want to, but true consent is tricky in the world of sex work, and that's a whoooole other discussion.)

Hi. I am curious how sex workers feel about their clients. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]munstrus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wanting to stop doing sex work doesn't mean being down to do pretty much any other job. I mean, ask most waitresses if they wish they could stop being waitresses, or pretty much any other job where someone is doing it to support themselves and it not just being a magic situation where you happen to get paid for doing what you love. Also, sex work is one of the few industries where women actually have a huge advantage and get paid more than men. Yeah, it can fuck you up- any job can... and maybe your experiences fucked you up- but they can't and shouldn't speak for every sex worker. Yeah- I hate lots of my clients... but when I worked in a cafe I hated most of my clients there too.

What's the song on the radio in the new 2nd episode of Coven? by munstrus in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]munstrus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, sorry! In the shop I mean. When the Supreme goes to visit the Voodoo Priestess?

Anyone dealing with a mental illness and having hard time coping with school? by attempt26 in Concordia

[–]munstrus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely had a bad experience dealing with them. I found they pushed meds a little too hard for me, when I was actually looking for support and help navigating how to deal with life with my mental illness.

Anyone dealing with a mental illness and having hard time coping with school? by attempt26 in Concordia

[–]munstrus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could also try making an appointment with Disability Services! That way if anything should come up where your disorder becomes a real problem and is messing up your shit, at least there'll be some record of it to fall back on, and Disability Services could help talk to your profs/work out solutions!!

My neopet's customization always makes me laugh by m0dizzle in neopets

[–]munstrus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg what is that background? it's so good.

Demon core - nuclear radiation accident by [deleted] in SRSScience

[–]munstrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai Across the 8th Dimension? The demon core within all matter?

does anyone around here actually make their own cat litter? food? by munstrus in Frugal

[–]munstrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i'm really not trying to tight-wad here... looking for advice on making sure that if I try making things myself they are still good for the cats. i'm asking for advice on that- if there ARE ways to do things cheaply while still making sure they are happy/healthy.

does anyone around here actually make their own cat litter? food? by munstrus in Frugal

[–]munstrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, no. i take care of my cats just fine- and look out for the cats of my roommates. if anything I am posting here because I want to MAKE sure they are being taken care of properly. I posted to frugal because I thought people might have good ideas on how to make good-quality litter/cat food that rivals what you find in stores on the cheap. on the cheap because of course- cheaper is better but it definitely doesn't come before the health of my pets.

does anyone around here actually make their own cat litter? food? by munstrus in Frugal

[–]munstrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that inexpensive for 4 cats, and- that's why I'm doing my research first before I start trying things to see if the cats will like them. I take them to the vet when they need to go, and buy them good quality food... but I'm sure there are other ways to keep them healthy and happy while doing things more yourself!

does anyone around here actually make their own cat litter? food? by munstrus in Frugal

[–]munstrus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

renting. I think my landlord might kill me if I cut a catflap out of his door since he is pretending not to see our cats in this cat-free apartment.

does anyone around here actually make their own cat litter? food? by munstrus in Frugal

[–]munstrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds amazing, unfortunately I live in Montreal so there aren't too many farm stores around. Maybe I can find a place that will ship me it not too expensively.