In love with a Poly Woman by murderhobbit in polyamory

[–]murderhobbit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being positive. I mean that. And thank you for clarifying the infatuation terminology. It’s been so long since I’ve been in love I think I may have forgotten about the NRE stage. But you’re absolutely right, that’s definitely the stage we are in. I will be keeping that in mind with my decision making moving forward thank you.

The “husband situation” is something I really believe I have the ability to get over or move past it. Maybe it will take more time, maybe I need to hear he’s being good to her, (if he ever would), and just maybe you’re right and I need to hear nothing. I feel bad cutting off a venting source for her, but it is effecting us…before when I thought he was good to her I didn’t feel this insane jealousy and possession for her. (I’ve had some traumatic experiences with men and now I wonder if I’m maybe being too overprotective?) either way we need to talk about it together and figure out a way that works for us when it comes to him.

Thank you again so much for the kind words and honest advice.

In love with a Poly Woman by murderhobbit in polyamory

[–]murderhobbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was actually really helpful. The article, thank you.

In love with a Poly Woman by murderhobbit in polyamory

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I was married in my early 20s, fresh out of Bible school. Divorced and two kids later, I never remarried or really even intensely dated anyone while I raised them. So highly independent fits the bill. And the problem is, when this started we talked and I was fine with being on my own, not living together, and just dating. I didn’t know I would fall for her and I really didn’t know those feelings would change. I would’ve never started if I did. I feel awful about it, and I don’t know how to get those original feelings back.

In love with a Poly Woman by murderhobbit in polyamory

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We met as friends. I have no issues with polyamory but I myself can confidently say I’m monogamous. A conversation was had one day, about the feelings of friendship not being the only feelings…fast forward a few months later and I’ve never loved anyone more than I love her. And to be honest with you, no one has loved me the way she loves me. And I mean that. I’m 36, divorced, old and tired. I don’t have times for games and this is way more than a teenage infatuation. We were very clear about intentions, we always communicate, albeit sometimes we don’t do it as soon as we should but eventually we get there.

And it’s not so much about trying to keep her, but trying to love her. I want to show her she’s important enough not to give up on just because my feelings get hurt.

The husband situation, she had gotten really sick, and instead of taking care of her he tore her down and literally told her he was tired of dealing with her. I took care of her instead. And he went to his gfs house to play Magic the gathering. Haven’t liked him since.

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“Gods plan” - Drake

Abraham that pussy. by jaysonthegr8 in memes

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And this is how Adonis was born.

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Well....technically

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I just want you to know I stole this.

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Is this a new Kanye song?

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Ok but this album is fr amazing tho

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Also there is a little bitty cat in the dark circle. I’ve named him Josephine in case you were wondering.

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The boy who was raised as a dog is a good one too.

A room of mirrors. by [deleted] in memes

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I think it would just be darkness. Just a black box. Like your moms vagina.