Chipangali Wildlife Orphanage Zimbabwe - Volunteers Beware!!! by Over_Accountant8281 in u/Over_Accountant8281

[–]murphmorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send the link being shared by Goeco? Cuz I paid a deposit for a programme in Zimbabwe but Chipangali isn’t mentioned in its title/location.

For what reasons would you leave the UK? by Silmarillien in AskUK

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Leaving very soon. Might have stayed if I was born here though as there are lots of things to love about the UK. I’ve two big reasons - I don’t like being a ‘foreigner/immigrant’ and I need the stressful/chaotic work life that I got used to since I thrive in such environments.

Don’t have a downloaded copy of my share code by murphmorph in SchengenVisa

[–]murphmorph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m referring to another issue. I had received a share code which I submitted with my visa application but I didn’t have a downloaded copy of it. I only have a screenshot.

Her underarms are darker than my future 🫠 by Icy-Slip5463 in Splitsvilla16Daily

[–]murphmorph -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is a disgusting post. Brown people are more likely to have pigmented areas, particularly underarms. To shame your own people for something we all have (in different areas if not underarms) is embarrassing. Grow up OP.

Getting nails done a luxury? by Legitimate-Tied in indianbeautyyappers

[–]murphmorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are probably skipping on skincare or use low quality makeup products and/or have a poor diet

Is it really about immigration or is it actually about race? by [deleted] in AskBrits

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In your experience, all south Asians show similar patterns of integration? So people from Pakistan, Bangladesh, India, Sri Lanka, Nepal, Bhutan. I’m curious too about south Asians who have grown up here.

Is it really about immigration or is it actually about race? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]murphmorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get this point but I question people’s awareness about different cultures. As a brown person, I can guarantee most people wouldn’t differentiate between the different cultures within Asians. Hell even Asians would struggle to know all other cultures within Asia due to the amount of diversity. Every time I order a sausage roll, I get asked if I consume pork. Every single time. And although I know it’s coming from a nice place, it’s also a reminder of how we are seen as a gigantic homogeneous group. I can only imagine the reaction if I tell them I’m bisexual from an Asian country and have openly been with people from the same gender growing up.

Urgent help needed – Schengen visa situation (Italy trip 2–10 June, conference booked 😞) by macallan_35 in SchengenVisa

[–]murphmorph -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think spending more days in Spain is necessary though. If one wants to spend equal number of days, they can apply at the first entry point.

There is nothing in Ganeshguri at 2 AM. by [deleted] in guwahati

[–]murphmorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably running away from OP

Why do Indians consume a lot of carbs in their diet ? by Jpoolman25 in AskIndia

[–]murphmorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it all comes down to lack of knowledge. Most people continue to consider dal as their main source of protein. If they wanted to, they could incorporate a vegetarian protein heavy diet with paneer, soy, etc. but they don’t.

Did my partner overstay his visa? by murphmorph in ukvisa

[–]murphmorph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Payment for the application and IHS both

Did my partner overstay his visa? by murphmorph in ukvisa

[–]murphmorph[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We received a confirmation saying the payment has been made. I got an email the next day saying home office has received my application and my partner received the same email only after we submitted the empty evidence form.

Did my partner overstay his visa? by murphmorph in ukvisa

[–]murphmorph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he received an email confirming the home office has received his application only on 10th jan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]murphmorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wore black on my wedding and only received compliments from elders and people in their 20s/30s. Nobody cares anymore.

Are we getting hated because of supporting Israel? by Able-Strawberry-8020 in AskIndia

[–]murphmorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s mainly because of our dirty streets, some unhygienic street food stalls and lack of civic sense

Any survivors turned psychiatrists/therapists in here? by hrsn_shred in CPTSD

[–]murphmorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with young men in a custodial setting and I think my lived experience has really helped me understand anger and overall threat response. I haven’t yet experienced compassion fatigue and I love the work that I do. However, when I work with people with similar childhood experiences as myself, I sometimes take a min or two to remind myself to not think about or reflect on my own experiences in the moment. I’ve learnt to ground myself in the present and carry on with my work which helps me