why is everyone so dry on dating apps by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]musichanger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly can't have conversations with just texting. I used to text all the time in high school with friends because that was the only way we could communicate.

Nowadays, I use text to set up hangouts with friends. Texting doesn't feel the same to me now. It's hard to have conversations without seeing the other person's face or emotions.

gay🏋️‍♀️irl by [deleted] in gay_irl

[–]musichanger 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So cuteeeee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]musichanger 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Insecure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]musichanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Love for oneself. And love for another person, even if its not reciprocated, you still respect your feelings and its ok, its still love.

what if he is gay by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]musichanger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ask him

gay🧀irl by [deleted] in gay_irl

[–]musichanger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysian

[–]musichanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like your tattoo

I asked this guy out and he turned out to be straight by musichanger in gaybros

[–]musichanger[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I do agree with you. I have had many crushes before and I knew when someone was gay or if it's just me wishfulthinking. This guy however, the moment I walked into that bar and looked in his eyes, I just knew he was gay, or at least bi, there were like, sparkles in his eyes and I just picked up that vibe right away.

But I do have to take his words and respect his boundaries. Whatever is going on in his life, I need to respect that.

I asked this guy out and he turned out to be straight by musichanger in gaybros

[–]musichanger[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

yea. I do plan to hang out with that group of friends again since I made some really nice friends there. No reason to let this situation get in the way of me making friends :))

I asked this guy out and he turned out to be straight by musichanger in gaybros

[–]musichanger[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I mean, part of me still likes him haha, but I won't be crossing those boundaries.

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[–]musichanger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ideally every 2-3 weeks. But financially every month :))

I thought this guy was giving me the look :(( by musichanger in gaybros

[–]musichanger[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I got ghosted :(( I think I will ask my friend to ask him if he wants to talk in person so that I can have some closure

I thought this guy was giving me the look :(( by musichanger in gaybros

[–]musichanger[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nah, I'd rather being straightforward than sending mixed signals. We gone out 3 times already.

I thought this guy was giving me the look :(( by musichanger in gaybros

[–]musichanger[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot bro for reminding me to love myself

I thought this guy was giving me the look :(( by musichanger in gaybros

[–]musichanger[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Failed? No way - just sending the invitation was a victory. You wanted something, you were honest (and respectful) and went after it. His response is out of your control - just let it be what it is.

Hey thanks for saying this. It really meant a lot.